She's been resistant to other people watching the kids since day one. I keep saying she should get day care or someone to come sit the kids but she keeps saying it's never the time for it. Our kids are quasi special needs (long story) but she says no one could watch them.
She did sign up for the gym so she could leave the little one in day care while the bigger one is at preschool but she never used it.
Tonight I asked her about couples counseling and she said it's not the right time for it. It seems she'd rather bitch about the problem than try to fix us.
She said that I'm never home even when I am home. I'm always someplace else in my head. If that's so, it's because of (a) I'm thinking about work, or (b) I'm thinking about when my wife used to be nice to me.
She's mad because I'm never listening and that's because I've tuned out a lot of her snide comments because I don't want to have a fit. She'll say something and I'll ask her to repeat it and she just sighs and says never mind. Even when I'm doing the dishes and the facet and coffee maker are going, she gets mad and won't repeat herself.
She did explain that one of the reasons she was so mad yesterday was that she was feeling bad herself and I didn't even ask her before I pulled the sick card. She wants to know when she'll get her sick days. She's right on that one. She can't take pills since she's breast feeding so colds are worse for her.
She did sign up for the gym so she could leave the little one in day care while the bigger one is at preschool but she never used it.
Tonight I asked her about couples counseling and she said it's not the right time for it. It seems she'd rather bitch about the problem than try to fix us.
She said that I'm never home even when I am home. I'm always someplace else in my head. If that's so, it's because of (a) I'm thinking about work, or (b) I'm thinking about when my wife used to be nice to me.
She's mad because I'm never listening and that's because I've tuned out a lot of her snide comments because I don't want to have a fit. She'll say something and I'll ask her to repeat it and she just sighs and says never mind. Even when I'm doing the dishes and the facet and coffee maker are going, she gets mad and won't repeat herself.
She did explain that one of the reasons she was so mad yesterday was that she was feeling bad herself and I didn't even ask her before I pulled the sick card. She wants to know when she'll get her sick days. She's right on that one. She can't take pills since she's breast feeding so colds are worse for her.
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