I hate to hear that you're sad or depressed...relationships suck like that...but hang in there...time does heal all wounds, but wounds like that will still leave a scar. But like you said, remember the good times and move forward with life.
I can totally relate to the feeling of everyone moving on in life and feeling stuck where you are. I constantly feel that way when I become reaquainted with people I used to know. They all seem to be way ahead of me...with careers, with marriages, some even with families already. Me? I still haven't quite graduated college, haven't been in a relationship in x number of years, and still work at the same part time job I did when I was 16. However, I don't know that you and I are really "stuck" as much as we've just drifted to a much slower section of the river. Those others around us just caught the undertow of life and have been pulled on ahead until they reach the next slow corner where they'll wait for us. We just have to be patient and take the river as it comes.
LOL Didn't mean to go into a posting of my own there...oh, and I completely relate to this statement too:
"I've stagnated myself in personal growth. I have no goals, no vision, aside from the career I'm working towards. I don't meet new people. I have no choice, and I feel so trapped that I'm terrified."
That is exactly the way I've been feeling, but didn't quite know how to put it into words...
Anyway, I hope things do start to look up for ya. But in the meantime, don't get discouraged and you know if you ever wanna talk, I'm a great listener, whether by phone, by IM, smoke signals, whatever it takes! Hehehe.... :)
~Sarah
P.S.--You shoulda called ME to go to dinner!!! I SO woulda been there! ;) LOL
I hate to hear that you're sad or depressed...relationships suck like that...but hang in there...time does heal all wounds, but wounds like that will still leave a scar. But like you said, remember the good times and move forward with life.
I can totally relate to the feeling of everyone moving on in life and feeling stuck where you are. I constantly feel that way when I become reaquainted with people I used to know. They all seem to be way ahead of me...with careers, with marriages, some even with families already. Me? I still haven't quite graduated college, haven't been in a relationship in x number of years, and still work at the same part time job I did when I was 16. However, I don't know that you and I are really "stuck" as much as we've just drifted to a much slower section of the river. Those others around us just caught the undertow of life and have been pulled on ahead until they reach the next slow corner where they'll wait for us. We just have to be patient and take the river as it comes.
LOL Didn't mean to go into a posting of my own there...oh, and I completely relate to this statement too:
"I've stagnated myself in personal growth. I have no goals, no vision, aside from the career I'm working towards. I don't meet new people. I have no choice, and I feel so trapped that I'm terrified."
That is exactly the way I've been feeling, but didn't quite know how to put it into words...
Anyway, I hope things do start to look up for ya. But in the meantime, don't get discouraged and you know if you ever wanna talk, I'm a great listener, whether by phone, by IM, smoke signals, whatever it takes! Hehehe.... :)
~Sarah
P.S.--You shoulda called ME to go to dinner!!! I SO woulda been there! ;) LOL
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