Bar tender etiquette 101 the station 17th amd mckean
so tonight i go around to the tap room where i run into jims old friend joanne and her friend who runs the new bar in my neighborhood "the station" which used to be a ghetto bar but now is all snazzy.we are invited to go there and drink instead and i agree.I walk in and it looks reallly nice they have good beer on tap and you cn smoke in there so im thinking awesome!! now joannes friend andy who runs this place cant figure out why they cant get more of a crowd and i cant either, then i meet his ghetto ass bartender.This girl walks up to me and before i can order my drink says to me "ew whats up with your ears" For thos of you who dont know i have 00 gauge holes which i commanly wear HUGE carved bone and horn talons in. which as a patron i would expect and would gladly tell them to mightily fuck themselves. My server should NEVER EVER IN HER FUCKING LIFE start our interaction with "ew" for any reasion.
This is where wording comes into play. If she were to say "wow those are big" or "does that hurt?" or even "those are some weird crazy fucking earings" ,that would be fine i could even deal with "OMG why did you do that to your ears" but EW????????? oh fuck you! now i could have given her an example of wording , like i could have said "hey your a curvy gal" or "wow what a classic figure" or i could have said " your not bad for a chubby chick" or damn your ass is huge!!!!!! (note the progression of how things sound when you word them different! instead i simple answered her question with "just get me a lager" drank my beer and left... i dont care how over priced the beer is or if i have to walk six fucking blocks to smoke a coffin nail its better than being talked to like im a moron by a fat girl who i could buy and sell with a weeks pay (yes im bringing up the fact that i make 5 times as much as this girl!!!
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This is where wording comes into play. If she were to say "wow those are big" or "does that hurt?" or even "those are some weird crazy fucking earings" ,that would be fine i could even deal with "OMG why did you do that to your ears" but EW????????? oh fuck you! now i could have given her an example of wording , like i could have said "hey your a curvy gal" or "wow what a classic figure" or i could have said " your not bad for a chubby chick" or damn your ass is huge!!!!!! (note the progression of how things sound when you word them different! instead i simple answered her question with "just get me a lager" drank my beer and left... i dont care how over priced the beer is or if i have to walk six fucking blocks to smoke a coffin nail its better than being talked to like im a moron by a fat girl who i could buy and sell with a weeks pay (yes im bringing up the fact that i make 5 times as much as this girl!!!
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