Re: oh honestly
anonymous
March 12 2004, 10:25:03 UTC
One more thing I just thought of.
It is hard to be a friend and then become a girlfriend or boyfriend. I am going to use you, Laura, as the example here, not saying this has happened I am just using your and Jons names. One day when Jon hangs out with you and not somebody else he is just hanging out with one friend as apposed to another friend which does not seem to be a big deal right? The next day you are going out. Then if Jon hangs out with you instead of one of his plain friends (by that I mean a friend he is not going out with) he has ditched his friend\s for his girlfriend which seems, to most people, to be a much bigger deal then ditching your friend for a different friend. I do not know if any of Jons' friends will think or feel this way but I just thought I'd through it out there since I feel like talking a little bit.
Please do not think that I am upset or trying to attack ether of you here I am just trying to put out ideas because its fun, but I grow tired of this.
I am sorry because that whole thing is a downer. You guys will see what happens, I most likely, will not. Good Luck you two!
Re: oh honestlymr_unbornMarch 12 2004, 12:34:06 UTC
This concern for my attention to my friends is touching whoever-you-are, but worry not. Just because I love Laura doesn't mean I will shun those who matter to me. If people wish to take offence at me "ditching" them for Laura as a girlfriend instead of a friend (which is silly) then I don't care. That's not really my problem, that's their perception fucking them. In all honesty, I want to spend as much time as I can with Laura before she goes away for a year. While all of our time is limited, my time with Laura seems more pressing to me. So anyone who would worries about me ditching them, besides Joel and a few others, can get assaulted with a meat hammer to the genitals. I don't care. I would like to know who you are sir/ma'am. A simple curiousity on my part, but it would be very polite of you.
Re: oh honestly
anonymous
April 10 2004, 01:48:05 UTC
jon, you are a fuck. you ditched us last night for your play!!!!! not even laura this time, for your fucking PLAY! of all the dumb stupid things you could possibly think of to ditch us for it was because "ohhhhh i'm fat and i need to know my lines" heh, that is true though. oh well. personally i don't care at all if you "ditch" me for your new-found woman.. all of us who have or have had girlfriends know how these things go. there isn't much you can do about it because a dating relationship is much more needy (in terms of maintenance) then a "friends" relationship. we are good friends (i'd like to think) and i see you maybe onces or twice a month. it is silly to think though, that that would fly if we were dating... (hey, i can dream can't i?!) so it's cool with me whatever you choose to do because i know how those things can be.
Re: oh honestly
anonymous
April 10 2004, 01:58:16 UTC
oh, i am not the one who has been posting. i just realized it might look that way as i just commented after you asked your "mystery friend" to reveal thier true identity. that person is a fuck and they probably smell bad.
-Sam
PS- if i happen to also be friends with the one i just called a fuck, it was nothing personal and i don't know if you really smell bad obviously, because i don't know who you are... just judging from your comments i would say you might smell bad.. possibly
It is hard to be a friend and then become a girlfriend or boyfriend. I am going to use you, Laura, as the example here, not saying this has happened I am just using your and Jons names. One day when Jon hangs out with you and not somebody else he is just hanging out with one friend as apposed to another friend which does not seem to be a big deal right? The next day you are going out. Then if Jon hangs out with you instead of one of his plain friends (by that I mean a friend he is not going out with) he has ditched his friend\s for his girlfriend which seems, to most people, to be a much bigger deal then ditching your friend for a different friend. I do not know if any of Jons' friends will think or feel this way but I just thought I'd through it out there since I feel like talking a little bit.
Please do not think that I am upset or trying to attack ether of you here I am just trying to put out ideas because its fun, but I grow tired of this.
I am sorry because that whole thing is a downer. You guys will see what happens, I most likely, will not. Good Luck you two!
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In all honesty, I want to spend as much time as I can with Laura before she goes away for a year. While all of our time is limited, my time with Laura seems more pressing to me. So anyone who would worries about me ditching them, besides Joel and a few others, can get assaulted with a meat hammer to the genitals. I don't care.
I would like to know who you are sir/ma'am. A simple curiousity on my part, but it would be very polite of you.
Jon
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you ditched us last night for your play!!!!! not even laura this time, for your fucking PLAY! of all the dumb stupid things you could possibly think of to ditch us for it was because "ohhhhh i'm fat and i need to know my lines" heh, that is true though. oh well. personally i don't care at all if you "ditch" me for your new-found woman.. all of us who have or have had girlfriends know how these things go. there isn't much you can do about it because a dating relationship is much more needy (in terms of maintenance) then a "friends" relationship. we are good friends (i'd like to think) and i see you maybe onces or twice a month. it is silly to think though, that that would fly if we were dating... (hey, i can dream can't i?!) so it's cool with me whatever you choose to do because i know how those things can be.
love
sam.
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-Sam
PS- if i happen to also be friends with the one i just called a fuck, it was nothing personal and i don't know if you really smell bad obviously, because i don't know who you are... just judging from your comments i would say you might smell bad.. possibly
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Laura
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