Oct 02, 2004 11:38
I woke up one day a few years ago thinking, there must be more to sex the married, missionary, lights out, are you done yet, sex I’d been experiencing. I know there use to be. It was actually fun, exciting and sometimes it was a discovering experience. So I tried in vane to pique my wife’s interest in sex. Not that she wouldn’t have sex with me; she would, when ever I wanted. She just didn’t participate much. (I guess that would work out well if I was into necrophilia, but I’m not). I bought corsets, bustier, stockings, planed dinner dates ending up with motel stays, where I had set up the room ahead of time with flowers, wine, food, bath oil, massage stuff, basically the works. While she enjoyed the treatment, her interest in anything adventurous in the sex department was lacking. So here I was with a wife I loved, but one who had little interest in sex. There are a number of things that contributed this lack of interest, depression due to the death of her son and going though “the change” to name a couple.
So what was I to do? I guess we’ll all find out as this journal evolves.
I’m thinking of going to one of the tantra teachers here in the Puget Sound area. I find myself wondering if this tantra thing is all it’s supposed to be and is it worth 200-300 dollars a session. Is there anyone out there that can help me in this voyage of discovery?