Feb 23, 2006 17:20
Well a friend had made a post about having babies that made me think. I really don't know if I want to have children or not. I sometimes have the urges to but I really am not sure. Anyways, I used to want children, badly...sad thing is once I was able to look at it from a different perspective, and now that I look back on it, I had just wanted to have kids so I'd be sure that someone would love me, that and I was expected to have children. For so long I thought I was just supposed to get married and have kids that I never wondered why or if I really wanted to. That's not saying these things will ever happen, just they will be for the right reasons.
To add to this we talked about marriage/divorce and kids today in class. At the end of this video a couple got married just because they had a child together, the woman was not happy at all. This my friends is not a good reason for marriage.