May 09, 2013 19:06
I did something today that I probably shouldn't have, but I have no regrets. I might not be the most eloquent person or the world, or the smartest, but one thing I am is a damn loyal friend, and if you mess with any of my friends, you are going to unload a holy shitstorm of Tina's fury on you.
Let me explain. One of my friends and her boyfriend have been trying to conceive for about 3 years, with no luck. All she wanted was some advice on the matter, from her friends and family. Her supposed best friend pipes up and says "Have you thought about getting married first? Or is that something you don't want to do?" No problem there. That was perfectly fine. However, my friend then says that she and her boyfriend can't afford to get married. This "best friend", her name is Ericka, feels the need to say "If you can't afford to get married then how can you afford to have a baby?" My friend was in an accident three years ago, the day after her 20th birthday. As a result, she is now paralyzed from the waist down.She gets SSI and Medicaid. Her boyfriend works, but he doesn't make a lot of money. If they were to get married, my friend would lose her SSI and Medicaid, because that's how this country is now. They claim that they want you to work,but then they punish you for doing so.
It was just a fucking mess because Ericka accused my friend of purposely getting pregnant just so she could bring a baby into the world to receive benefits. She said this about a fucking PARALYSIS victim. I was livid. She and I went back and forth, mainly with me winning because I pointed out that she is an archaic bitch, and ignorant as well. You do NOT need to be married to have a baby. It does not matter what my friend chooses to do; it is her business. I personally prefer being married before having a baby, but it's not my business. I understand my friend's situation, and if I were in her shoes, yeah, I'd probably do the same thing. And being told that everyone who gets government assistance is lazy anyway hits a nerve with me. So some of your tax dollars goes to people that get Medicaid. Boo fucking hoo. My friend worked THREE jobs before she got hurt. She did not ask for this to happen. But is she entitled to getting help? Absofuckinglutely. I hate stuck up Republitards who whine and cry about some of their tax dollars going to that. You claim to be Christians, well, last I checked, the Bible tells you to help thy neighbor. I would gladly give up some of my tax money to ensure that other people had a better life than me. Because I'm not a selfish fucking cunt trapped in a loveless marriage.
Who the fuck is this bitch to tell someone that they don't have a right to a family just because she's not working?We're not talking about a girl getting pregnant just for the check, or a pill whore. This is a girl who had the use of her legs taken away from her. Anyway, the thing I did that I regret is losing my temper. I should never have sunk to her level, but I was so angry. I mean, I was absolutely SEETHING. I really, really hate people that make assumptions about shit that A) they don't even know are true and 2) are none of their fucking business. I got pregnant OUT OF WEDLOCK. I didn't plan it, but it happened. And it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I wouldn't trade Spencer for the world.
Ignorant bitches can step off.