I guess the facial hair isn't enough
I have been trying to find a tactful way to tell Jen that I don't want to go to her family crap. I have no problem with her mom, but her father and his family are another story.
We drove up to Saugerties (where her Grandfather lives) on Saturday because her dad turned 60. I spent the day listening to people he/she/he... she me. I can't do that. They also tell people who have never met me before that I am "really a girl."
I don't want to go there again. I don't want to go with her to visit her father and stepmother. I don't want to hear about what his G-d thinks is right and how my life is full of sin. Hey ass-wipe! What does your G-d think about divorce and remarriage? What does your G-d think about killing people (I honestly don't care that it was in a war you were drafted for, your brother was drafted too but chose an alternative.)
It is not fair that she uses me as a buffer. It's not fair to ask me to put up with it for 12 hours at a time (not to mention asking me to be in my binder for even longer as we drive there and back.) I have no place to go when things get bad for me.
We drove up to Saugerties (where her Grandfather lives) on Saturday because her dad turned 60. I spent the day listening to people he/she/he... she me. I can't do that. They also tell people who have never met me before that I am "really a girl."
I don't want to go there again. I don't want to go with her to visit her father and stepmother. I don't want to hear about what his G-d thinks is right and how my life is full of sin. Hey ass-wipe! What does your G-d think about divorce and remarriage? What does your G-d think about killing people (I honestly don't care that it was in a war you were drafted for, your brother was drafted too but chose an alternative.)
It is not fair that she uses me as a buffer. It's not fair to ask me to put up with it for 12 hours at a time (not to mention asking me to be in my binder for even longer as we drive there and back.) I have no place to go when things get bad for me.