Mar 21, 2006 18:09
god this whole things is stupid.
I dont like complaining.
I dont like posting my anger issues publically like people do so often because then it pisses me off even more.
so why do I follow the crowd and do it anyway??? holy crap, I wish I could say.
anyway. this whole thing is dumb. and hypocritical, I KNOW.
if you have a big problem with something, talk to that person!! I've seen and heard so many assumptions made when no one bothers to talk to people in the first place. online commerce is the REASON why people dont talk anymore and I hate it. I do it now because I feel like it should reach more people whom ever should across reading this.
sometimes the things that bug me with people are not important enough to actually talk to people about.
it's not worth getting other people worked up over, so why say anything? because its likely that the pet peeves are rediculous enough that you shouldn't really be bothered by them in the first place. so it's even more stupid to bring it up with you shouldn't have that problem at all.
out of sight, out of mind.
out of mind, out of ..other peoples' minds?
sure.
there's a reason I dont mention names the way people like to on these sites.
they shouldn't have to become other peoples problems.
SO ...it's stupid to put peoples names online where other readers can see them, especially the person named, public where it's out there in the open.
is it your goal to put it there and reach that named person to piss them off even more? ??
what, did you think named person would happen to just skip over your post for the day? wow, how random!
what the hell is going on?
think before you act.
find facts before you open your fucking mouth.
dont rant on and point fingers at innocent victims before you have their side of the story.
if it's worth typing to the world and causing a big scene letting everyone know that you've got a problem with someone and destroying the reputation of possibly you and definitly your opposing side --than obviously it wont hurt to talk to that someone one on one and keep your issue underwraps and letting the world go on with THEIR happy lives. let's evaluate which of the above tasks are easier and less painful. ...
k... now that we've done that.
STOP relying on hear-say through the grapevine and telling your fictional stories bases on what you merely conclude.
talk to people.
understanding people is more important than you think.
stop judging people.
most importantly, dont talk about people behind their back expecting answers, unless you want it to circulate back to them. it's the worst feeling when you hear things you wish you didn't hear.
it happens too often. it hurts.