thank you scott
relationships don't work like they do in tv and movies....will they, won't they, then they finally do, and they're happy forever, gimmie a break, 9 out of 10 of them end becasue they weren't right for each other to begin with, and half the ones that get married get divorced anyway, and i'm telling you right now, through all this stuff i have not become a cynic, i haven't, yes, i do happen to belive that love is mainly about pushing chocolate coverend candies and you know...in some cultures....a chicken, call me a sucker, i don't care, becasue i do...belive in it, bottom line, couples that are truely right for each other wade through the same crap as everyone else but the big difference is that they don't let it take 'em down, one of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship everytime, if it's right, and they're real lucky...one of 'em will say something