The Final exchange between two child sex abuse victims aka The Bash Brothers
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RE: Didn’t Want This To Pass Us By.
54 messages
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Mon, Sep 2, 2024 at 12:58 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Please do not share this with Rita, Mark, Emma, Corrie, Spencer or their spouses. You don’t have a lot of empathy (Like Emma) but we have history. Pls don’t share w them.
Is your cancer back? Are you dying? What don’t you want to pass us by?
You said you didn’t believe me. That is why I don’t have a relationship with you.
You didn’t try to do what I asked. I asked you to tell the truth. The bitch has minimized what happened to you. She did it to me for years.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
https://www.wcsap.org/help/about-sexual-assault/effects-sexual-assault
https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/life-issues/challenges/cultural-issues/dealing-with-past-sexual-abuse/
If you hadn’t estranged Jenny she may have talked to you about the Henrys. She talked to me about the Rapists in 1999.
From,
Andrew David Donald B.
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From: bearbearface at livejournal.com
Date: August 28, 2024
Subject: Didn’t Want This To Pass Us By.
I do miss you, despite me ‘shunning you.’
I’d like to wish you a happy berfadurf.
A month ago when something happened, I was hopeful, but then the next day it started back up.
We are both not in the best of places.
I was tryna do what you asked of me. It wasn’t enough.
Whenever I hear about something that I feel we both would enjoy, I often have to stop myself from trying to contact you to ask your thoughts.
Did you enjoy Pep? Do you still enjoy music? Or is that also my fault?
I did find one of my grails, and knew that you would be stonked on it as well. White Lion’s Pride LP for $20!!!
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From: mormoncoverup at livejournal.com
Date: August 20, 2024
Subject: RE: It is a gathering, just where is Lady Ess Oh Veeeeeeeeeeeee???
Eric estranged the SOV (see caption, first photo
https://bearbearface.livejournal.com/187484.html)
Just like Eric estranged Jenny in 2002. They never made up, Eric was still shunning Jenn when she died in 2004.
I’ll be the other sibling Eric never makes up with - unless Spencer is back on that list.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Fri, Nov 8, 2024 at 12:02 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Every time I sit to write a response I get a headache.
Eric
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 7:20 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I’m at the space DELVING, and I came across some unfinished songs.
And an unexpected picture.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:18 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Look at you faking being my brother and friend. So positive.
We are running out of time. I don’t want pictures.
You are afraid of standing up to Rita.
When Jenn died we were estranged. When the next of us dies, we will be estranged unless you tell the full truth.
You’re not gonna do that.
Call R**. He was sodomizing Jenn when she was 15 and Rita knew about it. What an AMAZINg mother.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:31 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I was hopeful.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:31 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I am not afraid. You had years.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:32 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I understand the human condition.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:51 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
According to all the Sexual Trauma medical professionals there are many reason victims like me wait.
https://jacksonhealth.org/blog/2018-01-25-five-reasons-sexual-assault/
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:51 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
You do not understand humans. You would have more empathy.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:53 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
You are afraid. I just tried to call you.
You are afraid of Rita.
You are afraid.
You are afraid
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:54 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I received no call.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:55 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
You had 46 years.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 8:55 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I am done x
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:00 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
it is a scientific fact that CSA victims wait. You have no empathy and are in denial about being molested.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:01 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
It says your number has changed. Call me if you’re not a bitch.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:04 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
You are afraid of Rita.
You are afraid of Mark.
You are afraid of the truth.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:08 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
You weren’t my brother. You used me for my music gear and money.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:09 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Why are you blocking my calls. Afraid much?
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:24 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Tonight’s exchange shows how inhuman you are.
everything is on your terms. Never compromise.
You probably voted for Trump. Rita and Mark are just like Trump. Hiding rapes.
Enjoy the rest of your life. Keep posting on your blog. The pictures have been popular with my people.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:34 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Have a great life.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:40 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
i won't. I've been suicidal since I was six. Thanks to you for reinforcing that I never had a family.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:42 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
and you still won't call me.
MAYBE IF YOU HAD NOT BEEN MOLESTED WHEN YOU WERE YOUNG YOU WOULD HAVE LEFT HOME AND HAD AN ACTUAL LIFE.
I really wish that you were who I thought you were when we were playing together. I could use a brother like that.
I am alone.
I always will be.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:52 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
You blocked me
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:53 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I have a new number. Good. You are the worst.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:54 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
How am I the worst? That mean coming from someone who “understands the human condition”.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:55 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Call me from your new number then. You be afraid.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 9:56 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Did you get a new number cause of me?? Was that Rita’s plan? The Queen of hiding Rape?
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:06 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
❤️
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:10 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
You said I was the worst you don’t get to send a heart.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:26 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
“I didn’t want this to pass us by”.
Liar. Just like Mark and Rita.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:29 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Years. You had.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:30 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
💖
Eric B. reacted via Gmail
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:37 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
CSA victims don’t report for years. Check into the Catholic abuse scandal. Or does that hit too close to home for you? You sound uneducated when you say “you had 46 years”.
Call me. I’m driving around looking for a place to stop.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:38 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
“You had 44 years to move out”
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:39 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
“You had 44 years to not work in fast food”. See how stupid that sounds?
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:40 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
“You had 44 years to find a mate”. Still dumb. I know what you went through and empathize with that.
You have no empathy.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:40 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
threat
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:41 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
What’s a threat? Just call me
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:42 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I enjoy what I do.
You can fuck right off. You had no problem with what I did when we were ‘cool’, unless you were silently judging me.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:43 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I don’t have anything to say to you anymore.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:45 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Lies. You confided in me about wanting to buy my house and get out in your own.
Liar.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:46 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Aw w poor Eric. He can say that “I had 46 years to report rape” and call me “the worst”. When I barely turn the tables you go silent.
You are afraid.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:47 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
“I didn’t want this to pass us by”
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:47 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
‘Pipe dream.’ I also stated that I wanted to move out by the time that I was 50, things change.
Apparently you don’t seem to think that people can change.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:48 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
I am sorry that I opened this chat thinking that it was a good idea.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:50 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
You should be sorry. You have zero empathy.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:50 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
People can change. Look how insane I am.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:50 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Have a great life.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:54 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
Again, I have been suicidal since I was raped when I was six. I have a terrible life and I wish I could kms right now.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:58 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Block me again. Please.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 10:59 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Don’t comment on anything of mine anymore.
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 11:00 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
I never blocked you.
Take all my pictures down and then I’ll stop commenting. Two way street.
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Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 11:01 PM
To: Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com>
Heard
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Andrew B. <****andrew@gmail.com> Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 11:04 PM
To: Eric B. <****eric@gmail.com>
take them pictures down then. I asked you that YEARS ago. YOU HAVE Had years