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Finally, I have a day off from work.. and what am I doing? Working. I've finished a pair of wings and a headpiece and am about to sit down to start a mask. Other things on the agenda are starting work on things to expand my little company beyond costumes and into other decorative things. We'll see how those work out though...
I've had so much time to think while working on all these things. I've had a lot of time to think in general, especially about relationships. More and more, I keep seeing and hearing about really shitty ones, and nothing irritates me more than that.
Let me just put one thought out there for you girls who keep bitching about your man: If you are *so* upset with him that anymore all you do is find yourself complaining about how he's behaving, just do us all a favor and BREAK UP WITH HIM. For crying out loud! Face the lonliness and the broken heartedness and the tears over a *boy* who's not worth it anyway, get over him, and move on to someone better!
It's not a big deal. Breakups are nothing. Find yourself someone who treats you the way you want to be treated, and never let it get to the point where you're reminding yourself of the past to keep the present happier. Trust me when I say that people don't change. He is not going to treat you any better the longer you stay with him. He's not going to treat you better even if you argue about it. And, he's definitely not going to treat you better if you just let things slide.
So, ask yourself this: Would YOU change to accept his behavior with no complaints or wishes for something better? If deep down you know that you would always be miserable if he continued treating you like shit, then quit complaining and get out of the relationship. If you're a weak little bitch who is fine with it all, then shut up and take it and don't complain about it. No, don't even pout or whimper about it. Other women have stood up and made their choice not to settle for low-class. You've made the choice to just settle.
I say, dump the bastard. Get rid of him, leave him on the side of the road wondering what the hell just happened, and never look back. Take the pain, swallow your pride, accept the lonliness and tears, and you'll be back on your feet in no time.
And, in future endeavors of the heart, always remember that love has nothing to do with it, so never let a man take control of you.
I've had so much time to think while working on all these things. I've had a lot of time to think in general, especially about relationships. More and more, I keep seeing and hearing about really shitty ones, and nothing irritates me more than that.
Let me just put one thought out there for you girls who keep bitching about your man: If you are *so* upset with him that anymore all you do is find yourself complaining about how he's behaving, just do us all a favor and BREAK UP WITH HIM. For crying out loud! Face the lonliness and the broken heartedness and the tears over a *boy* who's not worth it anyway, get over him, and move on to someone better!
It's not a big deal. Breakups are nothing. Find yourself someone who treats you the way you want to be treated, and never let it get to the point where you're reminding yourself of the past to keep the present happier. Trust me when I say that people don't change. He is not going to treat you any better the longer you stay with him. He's not going to treat you better even if you argue about it. And, he's definitely not going to treat you better if you just let things slide.
So, ask yourself this: Would YOU change to accept his behavior with no complaints or wishes for something better? If deep down you know that you would always be miserable if he continued treating you like shit, then quit complaining and get out of the relationship. If you're a weak little bitch who is fine with it all, then shut up and take it and don't complain about it. No, don't even pout or whimper about it. Other women have stood up and made their choice not to settle for low-class. You've made the choice to just settle.
I say, dump the bastard. Get rid of him, leave him on the side of the road wondering what the hell just happened, and never look back. Take the pain, swallow your pride, accept the lonliness and tears, and you'll be back on your feet in no time.
And, in future endeavors of the heart, always remember that love has nothing to do with it, so never let a man take control of you.