Just in case anyone cares

[morbid69]

Here is something that I haven't done in quite sometime...UPDATE. Here is my update for any and everyone who still reads this thing

Comments

[anonymous]

all i want to know is why you would do something like have unprotected sex and then not expect to end up with a baby? What about the father you have vo commitment to him he can up and leave at any time because being a father is too hard. You dont care what people think right? well i think you made a big mistake and now you child will know it and probably end up doing the same thing as you. that was stupid kelly and now you have to live with it. your life will never and i mean never be the same! Dont expect any of us to be okay with it because you know our views and our morels. I hope you have a nice life and I hope your child does not make the same mistake you have made!

j

[stuzie24]

I may think you are going maybe just a bit overboard.
sins of the mother and that crap. My mom alcoholic, I am sure you know that.. Am I? Will I ever be? No but I grew up with her being one.. Dont condem a child before she is born.

Also I am not sure you should condem someone you may have once considered a friend for something like this. She did not kill anyone. Not everyone is perfect and can fit into your views and morals. we both know that. We both also know I likely dont fit into your views and morals.

Maybe there is more behind this and was animosity before hand. I am only making a comment about this one situation.

[anonymous]

Leave Kelly alone! I think she is a great person, so what people make mistakes but they dont keep running their mouths about it. Your not so perfect either, but what people have to consiter is that it is Kelly's life, not yours! She can do anything she wants to do it is her body and her life and people need to respect that and leave her alone! I think she will be a great mother. And I dont believe unwed sex is a sin! whoever thinks unwed sex is a sin is not a saint either and have done some wrong in their life also, so dont go preaching to others if your not in their shoes. NObody is perfect, but they live their life being happy and the person they want to be, even if they have a baby!!!! So Leave Her Alone!!!

[morbid69]

here's the thing...don't open your mouth and judge me because you don't even freakin' know me. for your freakin' information, i did have protected sex, just it back fired on me. how in the hell can you say that a child is a mistake?!?!?! children are to be a blessing. you should never, and i mean never say that a child is a mistake. what if your parents told you that you were a mistake? how would that make you feel? probably like shit, right. and for your information, i didn't make a mistake. my daughter came five years early thats all. i'm going to love my daughter and provide for her the best that i can. and who knows, maybe i wouldn't have had children later in life because i would be too career oriented. the father of the baby is happy as hell because he's a daddy and he gets his little girl on the first try. the only mistake that i would have made was to either abort the pregnancy, give the child up for adoption without thinking twice, or end up on wellfare for the rest of my life. here's the thing sista: i'm going

[stuzie24]

First thing I thought/said out loud was, "Holy Mother of God"

I am just shocked, this is the last thing I would except to find out about you. I really do not know what to say..
Congratulations doesnt fit quite right becuase it was not someting you planned or wanted... So I say I hope it all turns out right for the three of you whatever happens. I hope that you ARE happy.

And not trying to attack.. but..
The above commentor didnt necessarily mean the baby girl is the mistake just the action that got you there, the predictament you are in.. Pretty much what you said in your own journal "I WISH THAT I WOULD HAVE NEVER HAVE HAD SEX AND GOTTEN TO THE POINT THAT I'M AT TODAY."

Children are never mistakes, just sometimes very unsuspected.

[gdchrltt2003]

Kelly I honestly do not know what to say. I cant say i am supriesed because i knew of the situation you were in when you got in it. I just can not understand. You were one of the last people I thought would be put into this situation. I honestly do not feel comfortable saying congratulations your pregnant with a baby you waited five months to tell us about (By the way why did you wait so long?). you said you are not happy with it, is that the baby or the situation

[justme390]

whoah there osama, calm down. first of all, its not evil to have sex before marriage, just impatient. no one has criticized you for be ing a prude, so don't talk shit because she made up her own damn mind. so she got pregnant. if she doesn't see this as a problem, then what right do any of us have to do so? she's a big girl and new what she was getting herself into. and even with protection nothing is for certain. she'll deal with this they she always has: by picking it up and carrying on with a smile. let the girl be, she has enbough to worry about without all her friends betraying and condemning her like this.

[gdchrltt2003]

I never said that i was betraying her and never said i was never going to help her. Ones taught that premarital sex is a sin one will not do it. I am very sorry that i do look at people i know have done it and go why?. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and he agrees with my decision. When we get married and when we are ready for kids thats when you do it. I cant say i am excited for people that make that decision i can say i do not agree with it. I was not being evil and stuff to her. I have no idea who you think you are telling me why people do it. Impatience or not or whatever reason you give me it is still a sin and a sin unless confessed with send you downstairs. So do not go off telling me what i am supposed to believe because you have no right to. Just remember a PATIeNCE IS A VIRTUE IMPATIENCE IS A SIN.

[morbid69]

before the internet had kicked me off, i had this nice long response going, but here is the short version.
i'm sorry if i betrayed any of you by waiting to tell you that i was pregnant. this is the kind of crap that i didn't want from my friends, but i guess i get it anyway. i'm going to do the best that i can with the resources that are available to me to give this child the best that i can provide for it. for future references, no one has to sit here and read my journal. if you see something that you don't like, either don't read it, or don't respond to it. i only use it now to keep in touch with my friends back home, but now i see that it might have backfired on me.
thank you everyone for your concerns and judgment on me. this makes me feel a whole lot better about being a mother at the age of 21. the only thing that i can do now it go with the flow and love my daughter the best that i can.

[peaceluvlipglos]

well you made a decision and now you will have to deal with the result of that decision. I just think that you should remember that you are going to have a huge responsibility of taking care of a another humane life, I hope your ready for that. A baby can bring a lot of joy into your life but it can also bring a lot of stress. since you are still in school and working two jobs, I think it will be quite stressful on you. You will need to think about who will watch the baby while you are trying to make money to support the baby, along with the stress of school, and making your relationship work. well I am not sure if I should congratulate you, but i will say good luck.

I am curious however, how did your family take the news?
have you thought about names?

[wmubonzi]

Thats great you decided how hard it will be on her. Thanks for letting her know she will need money for the baby...I'm sure she had no clue. OH MY GOSH!!!! A BABYSITTER!!?? I bet you she had no clue. Really. Because she probably hasn't thought about this at all.

I'm sorry for being so rude..But come on you guys....leave the girl alone.

[peaceluvlipglos]

k I was not going to reply to this, but I decided too, not because of what you think nick, but because I did not want kelly to think i was mad at her. I am not mad and I never was and yes I am sure she knew all of that, I was just backing up why i thought it would be stressful. I also did not want to congratulate her because she said...(AM I HAPPY ABOUT THIS? HELL NO!!!) kelly i am so sorry :(

[wmubonzi]

Like I said..I'm not tying to be rude to you, and I know it came accross that way. But at the same time what you said did come accross that same way. You are a big enough person to apoligize though, and for that....very cool...muchos propos....