I need to vent.
I went to Grand Rapids to visit my sister and some other friends of mine from there over break. I didn't think I could hate anyone as much as I hate my brother in law right now. If he died I wouldn't even go to his funeral. Or if I did I would take a great big shit on his face in the coffin. Yea I'm pissed. Amber woke up Graham when she went to work at 5pm and told him "get up stay up, you are watching the kids." (ages 2 and 4) I got there at 9pm and he was still asleep in bed. His kids ran to the door and opened it for me shouting "Mommy! mommy!" If they ever get kidnapped I'm going to try to get graham put in jail forever. It took me a half an hour to get him out of bed to change his kid's diaper which was drooping so low full of piss and shit that he was walking bowlegged. I sent in the 4 year old to tell dad that his little brother needs a new diaper and he said "no poopie" as in he doesn't change diapers with poop in them. I made him do it anyway. Graham couldn't find the wipes so he didn't even clean the shit off my nephew. He just took him out of one diaper and immediately put on another one. I told him that thee kids were going to get sick and have sores but he didn't care. I asked him if he loved his kids and he said "No. I hate them." right in FRONT of THEM! No wonder they are afraid to wake up "daddy." As far as I've seen he hasn't earned the title daddy and never will. The only thing he ever did for his kids is feretilize them. He did all this and then when I confronted him about not getting up when amber told him to he lied to my face and said Amber never told me to watch the kids. I was only over there because we went to where she works to eat dinner and she asked us to check on the boys because she told graham to watch them and was afraid he went back to sleep. Amber didn't get home until midnight. I'm pissed off at my sister because she said "It doesn't do any good to yell at graham anymore because it doesn't work." And she married the guy after she already knew he was a bad parent and they fight all the time and she's never going to divorce him because she's refusing to accept the fact that she married an alcoholic loser after dating him for like 7 years! He hits her and she hits him back but never calls the police. Damn! I should've called the police on him for negligence. This is jut getting me more upset so I'm going to go now. My only hope is that he somehow gets killed in an accident and ambere can find a better man to marry and one who will help her raise the children without thinking it is a burden on them.