End of the road...
I think I may end things with Bass Boy. I am still so incredibly hot for him, but there have been a few interactions with him that have made me feel exceptionally uncomfortable. I sense that if I don't extract myself from this, I may find myself in a place with him that I truly don't want to be in.
I am not threatened by him and I don't feel he would ever hurt me. He just seems to be putting expectations on me that we never agreed on and he has become freaked out by the few times I wanted to go home and be by myself, thinking it's something about him and not accepting that it was because I just needed to be alone.
It's really wierd that this shift for me has come so suddenly, within the last week. Prior to that, things seemed really cool and I had the vision of being able to be friends-with-benefits with him. It reminds me of the huge and sudden shift with my friendship with That Man last year.
I am wanting to check things out with Bass Boy and have a few hang out sessions to see if I can get him into conversation about my boundaries and what I want or don't want from our friendship. We never established much communication about things personal, so I am not certain how that will go.
I am not threatened by him and I don't feel he would ever hurt me. He just seems to be putting expectations on me that we never agreed on and he has become freaked out by the few times I wanted to go home and be by myself, thinking it's something about him and not accepting that it was because I just needed to be alone.
It's really wierd that this shift for me has come so suddenly, within the last week. Prior to that, things seemed really cool and I had the vision of being able to be friends-with-benefits with him. It reminds me of the huge and sudden shift with my friendship with That Man last year.
I am wanting to check things out with Bass Boy and have a few hang out sessions to see if I can get him into conversation about my boundaries and what I want or don't want from our friendship. We never established much communication about things personal, so I am not certain how that will go.