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sproutchk has interviewed me. According to the rules, that means I have to post my answers here, and people get to ask me to interview them.
1. How did you know Tom was the "one"?
I can tell him absolutely anything, and I know he won't judge me. He never tried to seduce me, he just loved me. I was in love with him, but I wasn't obsessed, so I knew it wasn't just a crush; for the first four months of our relationship we slept in seperate rooms because we didn't need to be in the same one (and his old bed was lumpy, lol). I don't feel like I have to fawn over him 24 hours a day. We can be in the same room doing different things and not have to say a word, but we are still enjoying each other's company. He's the one because it's the only relationship I've had that just works. We communicate, we discuss, we have sex, but even if we didn't do those things, we'd be okay. There's very little conscious work involved, and it's refreshing.
2. What is your overall opinion of yourself as you view you?
Oh I hate myself most days, lol. I have issues, some personality flaws that I wish I didn't have. I do stupid things sometimes and I wish I had more foresight. But I also consider myself a very caring, patient individual who should probably stand up for herself more than she does. My physical appearance isn't as much of a concern at the moment as my mental state, even though they both seem to work in tandem.
3. What scares you the most right now?
Moving across the country, and somehow not having work out there (whether we have it and lose it or just don't have it or what).
4. What is your favorite memory of us?
Aside from the mad sex yo? ;) j/k. That's hard, we've had a lot of good times together. Probably all the times we were driving around in your beetle, blasting music with that little glowy glass tube thing going. I loved that thing :) We had so much fun.
5. What's your favorite thing to do for yourself just because?
Lately? Window shop for baby gear :) Overall, probably meditation. Or Cold Stone's banana ice cream :)
1. How did you know Tom was the "one"?
I can tell him absolutely anything, and I know he won't judge me. He never tried to seduce me, he just loved me. I was in love with him, but I wasn't obsessed, so I knew it wasn't just a crush; for the first four months of our relationship we slept in seperate rooms because we didn't need to be in the same one (and his old bed was lumpy, lol). I don't feel like I have to fawn over him 24 hours a day. We can be in the same room doing different things and not have to say a word, but we are still enjoying each other's company. He's the one because it's the only relationship I've had that just works. We communicate, we discuss, we have sex, but even if we didn't do those things, we'd be okay. There's very little conscious work involved, and it's refreshing.
2. What is your overall opinion of yourself as you view you?
Oh I hate myself most days, lol. I have issues, some personality flaws that I wish I didn't have. I do stupid things sometimes and I wish I had more foresight. But I also consider myself a very caring, patient individual who should probably stand up for herself more than she does. My physical appearance isn't as much of a concern at the moment as my mental state, even though they both seem to work in tandem.
3. What scares you the most right now?
Moving across the country, and somehow not having work out there (whether we have it and lose it or just don't have it or what).
4. What is your favorite memory of us?
Aside from the mad sex yo? ;) j/k. That's hard, we've had a lot of good times together. Probably all the times we were driving around in your beetle, blasting music with that little glowy glass tube thing going. I loved that thing :) We had so much fun.
5. What's your favorite thing to do for yourself just because?
Lately? Window shop for baby gear :) Overall, probably meditation. Or Cold Stone's banana ice cream :)