Balance
I believe every relationship, whether it be between a man and a woman, man and man, woman and woman, whatever, should have balance. If you have two people who are too much alike, there is going to be a lot of power struggles, if they are agressive, or too much passiveness, if they are...passive. I believe every relationship should have a balance of masculinity and femininity (sorry if i'm spelling any of this wrong, but I'm too lazy at the moment to spell check)
I think the problem with a lot of relationships, whether they be gay or straight is people are overlooking people that mesh with them, in favor of people who are 'unattainable' or 'exciting', but the thing with both of those things is that they are extremely temporary. When you finally attain that unattainable thing, it usually loses its value, and you discard it. Things that are initially exciting, after you've played with/experiemented with it, tend to fade in time also.
I think people (myself WAY included) need to stop overlooking what we can have, and stop going for what we can't, and more than likely shouldn't, have.
I think the problem with a lot of relationships, whether they be gay or straight is people are overlooking people that mesh with them, in favor of people who are 'unattainable' or 'exciting', but the thing with both of those things is that they are extremely temporary. When you finally attain that unattainable thing, it usually loses its value, and you discard it. Things that are initially exciting, after you've played with/experiemented with it, tend to fade in time also.
I think people (myself WAY included) need to stop overlooking what we can have, and stop going for what we can't, and more than likely shouldn't, have.