A Rant on 'Those Sites'
Wow, okay, I'm not trying to air my dirty laundry, but almost every gay guy I know has been on 'one of those sites' or two. I'm on 2. And both of them have allowed me to talk to some interesting people. Granted, it never turns into anything, but that's mostly b/c I'm not the type of person who can sell myself well online. Cause to me, that's what you're doing, marketing yourself. I mean, it doesn't help 90% of the guys have probably already slept together, but you are mostly going on aethetics. And if you don't have a 10 inch penis to flaunt, or a 8pack, then you're not going to be entirely too successful. Then you have to further seperate those who just want to bang, from those who want something. And that generally eliminates most of that 90% from before. So to me it takes a lot of self esteem to be on these things, cause gay guys, or since half these guys claim to be bi are among the most picky in existence. I mean, I could go to a straight club right now and 'pull a few numbers' as my brother would say, but with these guys, I seem to be like a discard... and anyone who knows me know I have the world to offer...how do you market that to people who just want some ass? I mean, I feel like the plumming is getting dry down there sometimes (2 months ::shiver::) but It's like, do I have to put 'I WOULD LOVE TO SERVICE YOUR TOOL' in order to get attention? I think not, totally not fetch.