Feeling like warmed over crap today, but it should be a quiet one at work, thankfully. Also, X has managed to vanish herself in the house somewhere, and we haven't been able to find her in 24 hours. Frustrating, because it's not a reason to be legitimately deeply worried yet -- she does this every so often, and has yet to not be somewhere of her own choosing inside the house (at our old place, often inside the back of the couch, making the cushions purr!) -- but mildly stressful nonetheless.
On the positive side, if I didn't already mention it (I'm full of brainfog, I have no idea what I've said or haven't), Jer picked up Max Headroom!!!! Can't wait!
The Anatomy of a Call Out (And Why It Needs To Change) -- Really useful and relevant to me, in regards to my current disinterest in engaging on ontd_feminism, especially. The
first linked article is also fascinating and gave me some good insight into my own activism tactics and weak points. I'm on the appeaser side of the scale, and have a very hard time dealing with nukers (I have a very hard time emotionally with conflict, and I wish I were better at that in general actually), although I fall on both sides of the logic bomber/emoter scale about equally. Paradox_dragon has a lot to say in the comments that I find additionally valuable, in terms of preventing this argument from swinging too far the other way, back to problems of expecting oppressed groups to smile nice and educate politely all the damn time (and it should be noted that this conversation is about tactics in activism, not a declaration of what those not functioning in an activist role should do in response to offense and hurt). As I've found in face-to-face activism work, the point that we need multiple different strategies and personality types in order to make the most progress rings very true to me. I think I've found it most difficult when I've been denigrated as 'not a real activist' simply because I don't use the same tactics as another person. Over the years, I've come to describe my primary activism technique as being educational in nature, rather than confrontational. It makes me good at dealing with some situations, bad at dealing with others, but on balance, I think it's the most effective path for me to take if I want to maintain my sanity and my interest in changing the world around me. It suits how my psyche and personal philosophies work, and it generally leaves me feeling more psychologically rewarded than punished for the experience. I neither expect nor want everyone to do things the same way I do, but I do think the questions raised about how "swarming" has been happening in the feminist blogosphere, and what that does to our ability to build functional activist community, are relevant and worth examining.
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