Nice post. It is sad but also status quo for this fandom. It's on it's third nasty anon com. Nothing changes. Not sure why there is a debate. Take something from a locked com, post it in a public one with user names and then proceed to ridicule said person and post anonymously? No question, you're an asshole and a bully. Period. No debate.
If you're actually in that locked comm and can copy from it then say what you have to say there or in a message to the person using your actual name. Instead of hiding behind anon. If you aren't in that locked comm then what was said there wasn't intended for you and is not your business.
I have my own opinion of Adam's boyfriend and anyone I care to have know what that is knows what it is. Anyone else its not your business. I don't tell Adam or Sauli my opinion. I rarely pay any attention at all to either one of them. Why should Anons even care what anyone else thinks anyway? How does it affect them or their fandom activity? Or is bullying their fandom activity? If so that is very very sad. I hope they get the opportunity to have real lives one of these days.
In agreement. For those who go there for news or some berting, great, please enjoy that.
Why should Anons even care what anyone else thinks anyway? How does it affect them or their fandom activity? Great questions. I don't know the answers. I only know that my own fandom activity is to enjoy fanfic and squee over gorgeous guys. Plus this fandom is the FIRST one for me where there are actual photos/videos of them snogging. Totally unique in my experience. No wonder I got hooked. Well, that and the fact that Adam and Tommy are gorgeous and talented and sweet.
If you're actually in that locked comm and can copy from it then say what you have to say there or in a message to the person using your actual name. Instead of hiding behind anon. If you aren't in that locked comm then what was said there wasn't intended for you and is not your business.
I have my own opinion of Adam's boyfriend and anyone I care to have know what that is knows what it is. Anyone else its not your business. I don't tell Adam or Sauli my opinion. I rarely pay any attention at all to either one of them. Why should Anons even care what anyone else thinks anyway? How does it affect them or their fandom activity? Or is bullying their fandom activity? If so that is very very sad. I hope they get the opportunity to have real lives one of these days.
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Why should Anons even care what anyone else thinks anyway? How does it affect them or their fandom activity? Great questions. I don't know the answers. I only know that my own fandom activity is to enjoy fanfic and squee over gorgeous guys. Plus this fandom is the FIRST one for me where there are actual photos/videos of them snogging. Totally unique in my experience. No wonder I got hooked. Well, that and the fact that Adam and Tommy are gorgeous and talented and sweet.
Thanks for weighing in. <3
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