Confused
I'm on Fetlife.com, it's s site for kinky people but mostly straight and tranny (for all values of tranny.)
I got mail from a guy there:
"I am straight, but cool with m/m body contact, mutual touching, stroking, rubbing, massage as well as light fetishes, role play and Bondage. No oral or anal either way.
If you are down to play, let me know."
I like his photos so I responded saying basically - what would we do? His response:
"I am OK with body contact, mutual touching, stroking, rubbing, massage. Light fetishes and role play as well as bondage.
No oral or anal either way, but a lot of touching is cool....."
I know of predominately straight guys who get into some kinky stuff with other guys but that seems to be more about the activity (flogging, whipping, etc.) and a personal friendship connection than about what most people would think about as a basic sexual attraction.
I've just got no context for this, and it would be strange to meet up with him because since I don't understand what he's looking for, I don't know where the limits are, and I'd probably find them frustrating. If you're straight and not attracted to guys, then why do this? If you're attracted to guys but consider yourself straight then it would make sense for me to push the boundaries. Or maybe it's just too weird.
And if one of the reasons I find him attractive is his large manhood, is he as functionally attractive if I can't stick it anywhere?
Any guidance would be appreciated.
I got mail from a guy there:
"I am straight, but cool with m/m body contact, mutual touching, stroking, rubbing, massage as well as light fetishes, role play and Bondage. No oral or anal either way.
If you are down to play, let me know."
I like his photos so I responded saying basically - what would we do? His response:
"I am OK with body contact, mutual touching, stroking, rubbing, massage. Light fetishes and role play as well as bondage.
No oral or anal either way, but a lot of touching is cool....."
I know of predominately straight guys who get into some kinky stuff with other guys but that seems to be more about the activity (flogging, whipping, etc.) and a personal friendship connection than about what most people would think about as a basic sexual attraction.
I've just got no context for this, and it would be strange to meet up with him because since I don't understand what he's looking for, I don't know where the limits are, and I'd probably find them frustrating. If you're straight and not attracted to guys, then why do this? If you're attracted to guys but consider yourself straight then it would make sense for me to push the boundaries. Or maybe it's just too weird.
And if one of the reasons I find him attractive is his large manhood, is he as functionally attractive if I can't stick it anywhere?
Any guidance would be appreciated.