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[moncherierin]

"the psychological and physiological mechanism of love is so complex that at a certain period in his life a young man must concentrate all his energy on coming to grips with it, and in a way he misses the actual content of love: the woman he loves. (In this he is much like a young violinist who cannot concentrate on the emotional content of a piece until the technique required to play it come automatically.)"
milan kundera. the joke

the technique never became automatic for me. even I know the wait was too long, he didn't want to wait any longer.