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[momnatur]

So, I've always been "one of the guys" ever since I started having guy friends. And I tend to get along better with guys--in general, that is--than I do with women. I was once told I "didn't count" as a woman, though, because of my being one of the guys.

So what I'm wondering is, is it sexier to be one of the guys, or sexier NOT to be one of the guys? Show your work.