and in all this I realize that I may have missed the question...
When you enter a relationship you agree to certain rules and if those rules are not understood then you should immediately find your partner and have them spelled out. It leads to a lot less heartache if you do.
Cheating is anything that falls outside of the guidelines that have been agreed on by you and your partner and the ability to remain in good faith.(for example if you agree you cannot sleep with another person, having sex with them and not staying the night does not preclude you from cheating because you know what was meant and though the letter of the law is obeyed, you are not remaining in good faith.)
I think the big thing about cheating is selfishness. People cheat, because they think they can have their cake and eat it to. When you are in a relationship, and you choose to cheat, it's all about the potential for forgiveness. "I'll never do it again, it was a one time thing, they meant nothing to me, it was just sex.." Those are the excuses that people who cheat always use. The thing, is 9 times out of 10, the person they cheated on thinks, "Wow, well, it's not like we broke up..so they must mean this apology". I know I fell for it..and got cheated on over and over again.
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When you enter a relationship you agree to certain rules and if those rules are not understood then you should immediately find your partner and have them spelled out. It leads to a lot less heartache if you do.
Cheating is anything that falls outside of the guidelines that have been agreed on by you and your partner and the ability to remain in good faith.(for example if you agree you cannot sleep with another person, having sex with them and not staying the night does not preclude you from cheating because you know what was meant and though the letter of the law is obeyed, you are not remaining in good faith.)
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I think the big thing about cheating is selfishness. People cheat, because they think they can have their cake and eat it to. When you are in a relationship, and you choose to cheat, it's all about the potential for forgiveness. "I'll never do it again, it was a one time thing, they meant nothing to me, it was just sex.." Those are the excuses that people who cheat always use. The thing, is 9 times out of 10, the person they cheated on thinks, "Wow, well, it's not like we broke up..so they must mean this apology". I know I fell for it..and got cheated on over and over again.
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Cheating is something I never understood. Why would you intentionally do harm to someone you care about? I just don't get it.
(on a side note I have decidd that I suck)
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