This is going to sound harsh and I apologize in advance, and will understand if you decide to "unfriend" me. Perhaps you need to look at what you do have that is positive in your life....although I don't know you IRL, heres what I see just from your posts on LJ. You have really really beautiful kids, who appear to happy,healthy, and well adjusted. You have a man who obviously loves you. You seem to be physically healthy, although I think you are beginning to slip into a major depression. (you may already be there). There are many organizations that can help you out with finances, food and such. You are not living on the streets with your kids. You may not be where you want to be at the moment, but you are still alive, and you alone can make the choice to be happy and do something about your situation. As long as you continue to lay around in the pity pool you will continue to get no where. Again I apologize, but please remember it comes from concern not hate. I've been where you are in my life, and I changed my mind and went to work on getting it together at some point. If you don't have marketable skills that allow you to get a job that pays well, go to school.(there are grants and things to help you that don not have to be paid back) This was the single best decision I ever made in life. At 19 I had 2 kids, was pregnant with the 3rd, no home, no car, and no job! Through sheer determination and hard work I pulled myself out of that. You are stronger than you realize, but as long as you continue to put out that "I'm worthless" vibe then thats exactly what you will be. I love you and hope this is seen as helpful and not mean spirited......You can do it and remember you are not responsible for everyone, just you and your kids.......*HUGS*
I could never think that you are being mean to me. And if you were I'm sure would inject a little humor into it somewhere. I could never unfriend someone who spoke from the heart.
I love you and hope this is seen as helpful and not mean spirited......You can do it and remember you are not responsible for everyone, just you and your kids.......*HUGS*
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