Health blips.

[mom2bunky]

A month ago I decided I hadn't had a regular check up in a few years and should probably do that just because. I had my appointment on thursday. The have no idea why I am having hot flashes, but figure its a hormonal sensitivity thing and to let it go unless it causes significant issues in my life, such as not getting a decent night sleep. Uh,

Comments

[jillthepill]

I hope things are okay with your stuff - I know they get a person all concerned when it comes to checkups, but at least you know if they catch something early, much can be done, and most of the time, things are perfectly benign. It does make a person take stock in life, though.

:@ ( That sucks about your dog. It is so hard to know when it's time, and you hope it never will be, and even when the vet tells you what you've been dreading and you come to accept it, it never really gets better - I miss all my lost pets (heck, even my fish, LOL) all the time, yet I know somehow they haven't gone that far away. I could very well believe they still lounge around and cuddle next to me, even when I can't see them; I know their spiritual presence exists beyond their earthly existence, I have more than enough proof there. :@ )

I think the best thing to do, would just be up-front and honest with your boys. Explain that Ender went to Heaven and he's still looking out for you guys, even though he won't be around anymore. I suppose that's a heavy thing to explain to kids, but I'd say just over time, be honest about it and explain that death is a part of life, and there are always memories to hold onto. I don't know, that's kind of a tough one to tackle, though. That whole "gone to the farm" thing is a silly way for people to handle death, I know that. Kids aren't that stupid and should be given credit for having thoughts and feelings! It's what prepares them for the rest of their lives.