Nov 12, 2008 08:36
Has anyone ever told you to "just be yourself"?
I'm the youngest by far of four daughter. I spent my entire childhood and early adulthood being told things: what to wear, what to learn, where to work, who to be. As a result, I never learned to decide those things for myself.
I don't think I CAN "be myself". I'm not sure I've ever met her.