Okay, I decided to pull my journal out one more time. Anyone who still has me saved in their friend's list: Good stuffs :3 Anyone who don't: Whatever X3
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Ohhh, but I did trigger it, didn't I? Didn't I? With my stupid, female persistence of being depressed over my website and the sorry state of my fandom!
Sorry, I'm so late to reply, but I defriended you, so I didn't see it at first...
I'll disagree with you on two points: 1) From my experience, you suck at listening to people's problems. 2) You ARE a wall at times. Talking to you about an FFS-related problems was like talking to a wall. Especially the part where you decided to just unhinge and fall on top of me with insults. After all, I suck for caring, it's my fault, I should get over it, there is no problem and bla bla bla, right?
Because that's really all the advice I ever got from you before you started to lose your manners. Three times, I think. Twice about FFS, prompting me once to take a break from the forums, and once to leave permanently and forever. Yay!
And the third time, that's what this is about, hm? And what finally brought me to defiending you permanently, because seriously, Hanh, you don't qualify as a friend. I know I could have the funniest and best discussions about... uh.... FFXI with you, but as soon as the conversation turns serious, uh oh, no way.
Sorry, but what you gave me as advice that evening simply was stuff that I had already tried, or which was missing the point. Don't be upset that I did not immediately turn into a happy fluffball again and thank you for your wonder cure! But you WERE upset, weren't you, when you realized I was really not going to accept any of your supposed solutions? And you tried to convince me that I was practically being silly about this, which may even be true, who knows, I do know I take these things much more serious than you do. It's one of the reasons you had me burst in tears several times and leave my favourite place on the internet.
But nothing at all, I think nothing at all, warranted your final outburst, when you apparantly misinterpreted my taking-my-website-serious with picking-a-fight-with-the-mog, and told me:
[18:25] moggiehatesit: Eh screw it, I'm done, don't feel like a damn arguement today and I don't feel like being a punching bag either [18:26] Annakaeli: I was neither going to have an argument with you nor was I using you as a punching bag. [18:26] moggiehatesit: Point is moot, I just don't feel like doing anything right now [18:27] Annakaeli: ... I guess I really should no longer talk to you anymore. It's not worth it if you cannot even bring up a problem. If I can only talk to you when I'm feeling happy, you are not worth talking to. o_o [18:27] moggiehatesit: Good logic :3 I'm tired of being at some girl's sad end [18:28] moggiehatesit: Call this generization but you're all the damn same [18:28] Annakaeli: Wow. This is about me being female? You are a damn ass. [18:28] moggiehatesit: Good, I feel like a damn ass
My favourite part is when you, completely without reason, whined about the evil girls of this world taking advantage of you. I have no idea what my gender was supposed to have to do with anything. Actually, this looks like the one taking out his frustrations on the other was you. Did a girl step on your tail that day? Because, you know, call me an asshole if you like, and you might have a point, but pull the old "girls are always the goddamn same, whining about their girly problems to me because I'm too nice" routine, it only makes you look like a complete jerk.
I kind of talked myself in a rage here, and this probably does not make much sense to any third party, but I only write this comment because I find it ridiculous that you, Hanh, of all people would stylize yourself as some sort of martyr and saying you are open to people's problems. Yeah, right.
I think this entry might qualify as taking out my frustrations on you, but these frustrations had been caused by you in the first place, so you must admit that you are the right audience for this rant.
Sorry, I'm so late to reply, but I defriended you, so I didn't see it at first...
I'll disagree with you on two points:
1) From my experience, you suck at listening to people's problems.
2) You ARE a wall at times. Talking to you about an FFS-related problems was like talking to a wall. Especially the part where you decided to just unhinge and fall on top of me with insults. After all, I suck for caring, it's my fault, I should get over it, there is no problem and bla bla bla, right?
Because that's really all the advice I ever got from you before you started to lose your manners.
Three times, I think.
Twice about FFS, prompting me once to take a break from the forums, and once to leave permanently and forever. Yay!
And the third time, that's what this is about, hm? And what finally brought me to defiending you permanently, because seriously, Hanh, you don't qualify as a friend. I know I could have the funniest and best discussions about... uh.... FFXI with you, but as soon as the conversation turns serious, uh oh, no way.
Sorry, but what you gave me as advice that evening simply was stuff that I had already tried, or which was missing the point. Don't be upset that I did not immediately turn into a happy fluffball again and thank you for your wonder cure!
But you WERE upset, weren't you, when you realized I was really not going to accept any of your supposed solutions? And you tried to convince me that I was practically being silly about this, which may even be true, who knows, I do know I take these things much more serious than you do. It's one of the reasons you had me burst in tears several times and leave my favourite place on the internet.
But nothing at all, I think nothing at all, warranted your final outburst, when you apparantly misinterpreted my taking-my-website-serious with picking-a-fight-with-the-mog, and told me:
[18:25] moggiehatesit: Eh screw it, I'm done, don't feel like a damn arguement today and I don't feel like being a punching bag either
[18:26] Annakaeli: I was neither going to have an argument with you nor was I using you as a punching bag.
[18:26] moggiehatesit: Point is moot, I just don't feel like doing anything right now
[18:27] Annakaeli: ... I guess I really should no longer talk to you anymore. It's not worth it if you cannot even bring up a problem. If I can only talk to you when I'm feeling happy, you are not worth talking to. o_o
[18:27] moggiehatesit: Good logic :3 I'm tired of being at some girl's sad end
[18:28] moggiehatesit: Call this generization but you're all the damn same
[18:28] Annakaeli: Wow. This is about me being female? You are a damn ass.
[18:28] moggiehatesit: Good, I feel like a damn ass
My favourite part is when you, completely without reason, whined about the evil girls of this world taking advantage of you. I have no idea what my gender was supposed to have to do with anything.
Actually, this looks like the one taking out his frustrations on the other was you. Did a girl step on your tail that day? Because, you know, call me an asshole if you like, and you might have a point, but pull the old "girls are always the goddamn same, whining about their girly problems to me because I'm too nice" routine, it only makes you look like a complete jerk.
I kind of talked myself in a rage here, and this probably does not make much sense to any third party, but I only write this comment because I find it ridiculous that you, Hanh, of all people would stylize yourself as some sort of martyr and saying you are open to people's problems. Yeah, right.
I think this entry might qualify as taking out my frustrations on you, but these frustrations had been caused by you in the first place, so you must admit that you are the right audience for this rant.
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