The Logic about love, Or is there any?
I hope to write something concrete , so that at least i can garner some replies. After all , isn't the sole purpose in life to be accepted socially 95% of our time? Yup, to be loved in all aspects? Had a chat with a female colleague. She's gotten into a new relationship with a younger man. He's everything average, also in the same industry, and personally i do think , cares for her at least through his actions. Her main issue about the relationship is that it felt similar to her previous relationships, and that she has evolved and wanted something different. The conversation went on , and of course lead to nowhere concrete.
We all have expectations when it comes to love. We will also think about things that will make us happy in a relationship, and try to incorporate those into our criteria , whilst looking for love. The Taboo Phrase is " Looking for love" in this case. We are taught since young to be logical , to be careful about decision making, and how to "Thoughtfully" plan out our life. Hence , We also look for love in accordance to our own carefully "thought-out" criteria. We gradually lose some of the basic human instinct to actually feel instead of just physical pleasures or practical attributes analysis. I admit i have been very guilty being a workaholic, and unwittingly incorporate these practical attributes into my personal life. Love rewards as well as love hurts. Don't think too much about finding , but rather gutfully go for it when the feeling is right. That is , at least, what i learnt over the past 2 years. Up till now, I'm still learning to let go.
We all have expectations when it comes to love. We will also think about things that will make us happy in a relationship, and try to incorporate those into our criteria , whilst looking for love. The Taboo Phrase is " Looking for love" in this case. We are taught since young to be logical , to be careful about decision making, and how to "Thoughtfully" plan out our life. Hence , We also look for love in accordance to our own carefully "thought-out" criteria. We gradually lose some of the basic human instinct to actually feel instead of just physical pleasures or practical attributes analysis. I admit i have been very guilty being a workaholic, and unwittingly incorporate these practical attributes into my personal life. Love rewards as well as love hurts. Don't think too much about finding , but rather gutfully go for it when the feeling is right. That is , at least, what i learnt over the past 2 years. Up till now, I'm still learning to let go.