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[moderncliche503]

There is this newish employee at work. she has been there for about 2 or 3 weeks. She is very appealing sexually, but doesn't seem like she would be that interesting if I got to know her. She appears a bit ditzy. She likes me, but I'm undecided. Since i'm only attracted to her in a physical way it is kind of difficult to approach the situation with good intentions. Don't get me wrong, I'm not the kind of guy who just goes around sleeping with women all the time. I've actually only ever had sex with one.(tmi) It would go against my moral values to get into a relationship just for the sex. I can't just go to a club or bar and walk out with "one-night-stand-girl." That isn't who I am. I date women that I'm interested in. If you are interesting, and/or intelligent, and/or have good taste in music you're okay in my book an I would be overjoyed to go out with you. However, the one at work doesn't project these qualities when I talk to her. I can hope that I'm wrong about her. Perhaps I should take her out to dinner sometime and find out who she is. She might be more than what she seems (like the transformers). Maybe if I talk to her for a while I'll find out that she really is smart, has a nice personality, and has good taste in music(very important). But lets say that I go out with her, find out that I was right and she is just a pretty face without the brains or good taste in music. How can I tell her that I don't want to continue seeing her without hurting her feelings? I hate hurting people, because I know how it feels.

Okay I'm sick of writing about this, so I'm going to go write some stupid little songs instead.

Your pal,

--josh--