I'm done. So STOP already.
I definitly just realized again how much Eric really cares for me and my safety..
I'm sure that everyone knows about the incident with BJ last year smashing into Eric's car.. and Eric & him fighting.. Well he keeps calling me, and Eric finally got to talk to him. Apparently he needed to talk to me.. Eric obviously told him that i was in class and not to call my phone ever again and just hung up. Well he called back, this time only wanting to talk to Eric.. to Apologize to Eric for smashing his Camaro, he didn't mean to do it? He was a different person last year, and he's changed. Well ya know, That's great for You. How does it concern me? He also told Eric that I need to know that he doesn't have a kid.. Riight. She looks exactly like him, and until he can prove it to be different then it seems I'm going to believe it. He's the one that told me that Erika was his.. so why would he change his mind now? Because he doesn't want her to be his anymore? Because he's supposedly "engaged" Well.. I guess that's too bad. Sorry he changed his mind, but it's not that easy. Another thing I don't get, if he's just "Oh so Happy" why keep calling me? I'm happy! I love my life! Without him in it.. I've never been so good. I'm with the person that I love, we're getting married! I'm going to school, I have the best friends ever, and what he does with his life should not concern me. Period. It's great that he's doing good for himself, but please just let me be out of it.. Don't base your decisions around me, don't think about me when you decide what to do with your life, you don't need my approval for the things that your doing.
It's come to a point where he just needs to stop. Completely. With everything. I don't appreciate him calling, I don't want to talk to him, and most importantly I don't need to know every detail of what is happening in his life. It's not my business to know, and the fact that he keeps on trying to make it my business aggrivates me even more. I have a life, and so does he. Let's keep them seperate.
All in all Eric basically told him that if he feels he needs to talk to someone to talk to him.. Not me. He told BJ that he completely trusts me but him trying to talk to me worries him more than anything because he tends to flip, and if he is going to flip out on anyone, let it be him and not me. Eric told him that he'd appreciate it if he didn't even try to talk to me anymore. At all.
So I'm hoping he got some closure out of this, because I'm done. I will continue to not answer the phone when he calls.. The text messages he keeps on sending have to end.. and he needs to stop going to my house for random reasons. I don't appreciate it. We have 2 seperate lives, and that's how I want it to be.
That's how it's going to be.