What a disappointing night
Ok, so tonight was supposed to be a nice relaxing night. I was gonna hang out with a few people and just relax. There was like 6 of us or some such, and it woulda been a great time. Anyway, I knew it was off to a bad start when a ton of people showed up, including people I can't fucking stand. They were loud, obnoxious, and all acted like they belonged. Now, they were all Kevin's friends, and he was sick and hanging out by himself upstairs, yet they seem to think my house is like the local hangout and they are welcome wether they are with Kevin, without, or whatever. Now, some of these people were invited by people who WERE welcome, which I feel is really fucking gay, because just because I like you, and don't mind you around, does NOT mean I trust your judgement with other people, especially after I've said that I can't stand some of these people. Anyway, people were loud, and I can't just relax and enjoy, because my mom sleeps right fucking upstairs, and she was up there, and if they're loud she comes down just to tell us to be quiet, but anyway, it coulda got me in trouble and I don't want to deal with that over people I didn't invite. So all night I'm yellin at people to shut up and not be loud or annoying and to stop sayin words like alcohol, drink, drunk, beer, whiskey, etc. So, Jim Piraino is the biggest idiot, and repeatedly says these things, and I tell him on numerous to shut up and cut it out. Anyway, I can't relax, so I'm not drinking at all, I had 1 drink at about 9, finished at like 9:30, and hadn't drank since. Finally at like 12:15 people leave, so I can chill and enjoy, so I pour another. Sean kicks it over and spills it, so I have to go and get shit to clean my completely filled drink that was just spilled all over my floor. Anyway, I get it fairly cleaned, and while I'm doin it that kid Jim yells out, "Haha Sean's drunk ass just spilled that drink." Now, that was clearly against everything I'd said all night long, and he YELLED it. So, I walked over, and whipped in with the whiskey soaked towel in my hand. Then I went back to cleaning. I felt that was enough to clearly illustrate my point. I had told him, he didn't listen, so I whipped him with a towel, big fuckin deal. ANyway, he flips out and is all ready to fight or some shit, so I tell his dumb ass to leave. He makes numerous brilliant remarks, "Fuck that, now I have beer in my hair" was one which he yelled, so I got even more angry since he was now repeating the problem that caused this all, and told him to leave right them. He says other dumb comments(why dont you leave, why should I, you just got beer in my hair im not gonna leave, im with kevin(whho was sitting alone upstairs playing guitar, not anywhere near us), etc). He still refuses to leave, so it's clear he's not going to listen to what I'm telling him to do. Now, this has happened twice before, once when I took his retarded ass to a party at Purdue and he was being loud in the dorms and I told him to shut up and other stuff and he wouldn't listen, and once at Mikey's when I told him he wasn't allowed upstairs(the party had gotten way out of hand and we were keepin people downstairs) and he was all like, "Mike chill, you're up here, so why cant I be up here. This isn't your house." and other dumb comments like that. So, I picked up a piece of wood in my basement and told him I'd hit him right then if he didn't leave. He left that time, but was all like, "Look at Mike crying(which I clearly wasn't, I was actually angry, not at all upset though)" and other dumbass remarks. So he goes up, and as if that crap isn't bad enough, I think this is all done with. People down there are like, "You are over-reacting" and shit. I was like, Wait, someone came to MY house, broke a rule I repeatedly warned them about, and wouldn't leave, I don't think I over-reacted in any way. He wasn't welcome, no matter what he says or does, me not inviting him and asking him to leave should be enough. If he doesn't, am I supposed to just let him stay. This is NOT some fuckin club for people to hang out at. This is my fucking house, I live here, and as such, I expect people to respect my simple fuckin rules and listen when I ask you to leave. If a bar tells you to leave, you leave, how is it that a house is more of a public place? It makes no sense. Diana makes it worse by claiming, "He was wrong, but you didn't have to hit him." and I was like, "I whipped him with a wet towel." and she tries to stand by her statement that I went too far. Fuck that, clearly he didn't listen when I told him to shut up numerous times earlier, why should I continue to just use words if it doesn't get the point across. I didn't do something that could cause damage or hurt him, simply slapped him with a towel, enough to get the point across that he was an idiot and fucked up yet again. Just because he's a pretty boy who can't let his fagot-ass hair get wet, and the fact that he thinks he's too cool to be insulted, is not a reason for people to defend him. So I finish cleaning, sit around angry, and after about 10 minutes come upstairs to play poker online and write this. Diana comes up like 20 minutes later to be mad at ME for disappearing(don't even get me started on her disappearing at parties when she's wanderin around), and then proceeds to be angry at me for apologizin and sayin, "Yea, I know it's annoyin when people disappear, trust me, I know, so I'm real sorry." but that's not enough and she acts all angry and crap. Whatever, gay as shit. So then she gets angry that I say I just want to be alone and vent into this. I mean, I do, so why is she angry? So she's like, "Don't call me tomorrow." as if I did something to warrant that. All I did was say I was in a bad mood and didn't wanna do anything. Hell, I invited her to stay and watch TV while I vented to this, and then I'd watch w/ her, but I guess that wasn't good enough, so she was cranky. Anyway, I explained myself, shestayed and watched tv, although very angrily. It's crap. And Kevin has yet to even own up to his responsibility, now he may not have invited Jim, but clearly Jim thought he was there WITH KEVIN, so he is Kev's responsibility. Therefore, Kevin should be tryin to fix this, instead he just acts all cranky that shit got started. Like, wtf, he needs to either be responsible for his friends, or make it clear that they can't come over without being invited. So yea, I'm pissed, what could have been a good night was ruined by uninvited people bein uncontrollable and stupid. Bullshit.