MORE DRAMA!!!!! AAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Where does the madness end....ok for right now as far as I am concerned when it comes to Duane B. Phillips, we are no longer together!!! I ended up pregnant again (that's both our fault) but he refuses to admit his part in this and take any responsibility. He thinks he can pacify me by giving me money and telling me that he will eventually tell his family (like after i have the kid!!), and that i'm not following HIS plan!! It just took him until about two weeks ago to even stop blaming me for this. I know that I don't usually leave one relationship until I find something better, but I can't deal with this BS anymore...I'm stuck trying to plan now for the future and pretty much the rest of my life for when the baby gets here, but he bitches that i don't let him have a say-so in anything after he has specifically said to me (in his own words) "You chose to have it so every decision from here on out is yours as far as I am concerned." The only thing he wants to plan is what it should be named and who it's god-parents should be. Then if i try to talk to him about the names and gps, he tells me that he doesn't want to talk about it, that my health from day one has been an inconvience as is my being pregnant. When I then ask him if I'm such a hassle, why is he still with me, he replies with, 'I know you ain't going nowhere', with implications that the sex alone is good enough to keep me. Now he feels neglected because i don't call anymore, i don't go out with him when he asks, and I try not to answer his calls.
He claims that he hasn't told his family because they would cut him off and put him out. To the rest off the real world that translates to MAKING HIM GROW THE FUCK UP!!! That's ok cause he doesn't have to tell them, I will because I don't want them to be surprised when he gets a letter in the mail to appear in court for child support...OOOOHHHHH that's the other thing. He wants me to not make him pay child support so that he can go to school on somebody else's dime and not work. It's not happening, he messed this up just like I did, and I should NOT be the only one trying to fix it.
Ok i'm done ranting now...good night all...
He claims that he hasn't told his family because they would cut him off and put him out. To the rest off the real world that translates to MAKING HIM GROW THE FUCK UP!!! That's ok cause he doesn't have to tell them, I will because I don't want them to be surprised when he gets a letter in the mail to appear in court for child support...OOOOHHHHH that's the other thing. He wants me to not make him pay child support so that he can go to school on somebody else's dime and not work. It's not happening, he messed this up just like I did, and I should NOT be the only one trying to fix it.
Ok i'm done ranting now...good night all...