Never trust. I repeat: NEVER.
wow....
just when you think you can trust someone.
just when you think you KNOW someone.
Just when you think..... you realize that the problem is.... you THINK. you don't KNOW.
you NEVER know.
I trusted Chad more than anyone I've ever trusted before. I gave him the benefit of the doubt in EVERYTHING. If EVER there was a question about who was telling the truth in ANYTHING... I believed him. I actually thought he was incapable of being decietful. Even when everything in me told me to NOT trust someone so completely, I did. I THOUGHT that he was the one person on the face of the planet who I could really, really count on..... no matter what.
and now this. I'm a fool.
I opened Chad's email yesterday, to see if his student loan application had gone through, or if we were still waiting, because we had filled something out incorrectly. there were 4 emails from www.date.com providing him with info about girls on the site. I WOULD have thought that they were spam, but he had opened them, and never deleted them. So I opened one. He's got a VERY in depth profile n the site, looking for "good friends and good times" and yes, listed as a "Man seeking a woman".
I feel sick. His personal intro was all about how he didn't like people that didn't tell the truth, or how he didn't like "false pretences".
I'm going to be ill. I then did some checking, and there are 2 other sites that he's a member of, (after all of his hatred of LJ, no less) and in his history..... for someone who doesn't like porn.... there's a LOT of it.
Moral of this story...
Don't trust anyone.
ever.
just when you think you can trust someone.
just when you think you KNOW someone.
Just when you think..... you realize that the problem is.... you THINK. you don't KNOW.
you NEVER know.
I trusted Chad more than anyone I've ever trusted before. I gave him the benefit of the doubt in EVERYTHING. If EVER there was a question about who was telling the truth in ANYTHING... I believed him. I actually thought he was incapable of being decietful. Even when everything in me told me to NOT trust someone so completely, I did. I THOUGHT that he was the one person on the face of the planet who I could really, really count on..... no matter what.
and now this. I'm a fool.
I opened Chad's email yesterday, to see if his student loan application had gone through, or if we were still waiting, because we had filled something out incorrectly. there were 4 emails from www.date.com providing him with info about girls on the site. I WOULD have thought that they were spam, but he had opened them, and never deleted them. So I opened one. He's got a VERY in depth profile n the site, looking for "good friends and good times" and yes, listed as a "Man seeking a woman".
I feel sick. His personal intro was all about how he didn't like people that didn't tell the truth, or how he didn't like "false pretences".
I'm going to be ill. I then did some checking, and there are 2 other sites that he's a member of, (after all of his hatred of LJ, no less) and in his history..... for someone who doesn't like porn.... there's a LOT of it.
Moral of this story...
Don't trust anyone.
ever.