I hate it when people obviously have something that they need to should say, to at least explain how or why they transformed from "Personality A" to "Personality B"(itch
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Thinking that no one is better than anyone else is naive.
A majority of the people you know are better than you in one way or another, whether or not you disagree with that fact, it's true. There are things you either aren't capable of doing physically or don't know/can't comprehend mentally or emotionally.
There is absolutely no reason that I, personally, would tell someone I was ending a friendship with them for whatever reason. I would cue them in if I were in a serious relationship, but never over a friendship. Maybe this is because I'm a bit of an elitist and can't stand maintaining friendships with people I dislike or disagree with regularly. It's my right to cut someone out of my life without a warning, it's also the best and most sterile way of ending a friendship. In the past year it's been my common method of asserting myself, don't talk to someone often? Take them out of phonebook, remove their name from aim. Don't have any emotional attachment to ____ anymore? Why should I keep their contact info around, I haven't had sex with them I won't need to be warned of any possible STDs floating around. Tired of always giving advice to someone who just doesn't get it? Easy to get away from.
Whenever/ if I ever run into them after I've cut the communication, I'm always civil, Hello, How are you, Goodbye, See you around. They can hold onto whatever resentment/grief/opinion/anger/emotion they have over the abrupt halt of returned calls, texts, emails that they want... But really, when people cut me off I move on barely caring. They made their choice, I made mine.
A majority of the people you know are better than you in one way or another, whether or not you disagree with that fact, it's true. There are things you either aren't capable of doing physically or don't know/can't comprehend mentally or emotionally.
There is absolutely no reason that I, personally, would tell someone I was ending a friendship with them for whatever reason. I would cue them in if I were in a serious relationship, but never over a friendship. Maybe this is because I'm a bit of an elitist and can't stand maintaining friendships with people I dislike or disagree with regularly. It's my right to cut someone out of my life without a warning, it's also the best and most sterile way of ending a friendship. In the past year it's been my common method of asserting myself, don't talk to someone often? Take them out of phonebook, remove their name from aim. Don't have any emotional attachment to ____ anymore? Why should I keep their contact info around, I haven't had sex with them I won't need to be warned of any possible STDs floating around. Tired of always giving advice to someone who just doesn't get it? Easy to get away from.
Whenever/ if I ever run into them after I've cut the communication, I'm always civil, Hello, How are you, Goodbye, See you around. They can hold onto whatever resentment/grief/opinion/anger/emotion they have over the abrupt halt of returned calls, texts, emails that they want... But really, when people cut me off I move on barely caring. They made their choice, I made mine.
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