Talk of Weddings
There is a lot of wedding talk going around school today. Two teachers I work closely with are getting married tomorrow and everyone has been gabbing all day about the details. It got me to thinking of my own wedding.
no, I am not engaged.
But a girl can dream, can't she? I decided it wouldn't hurt to draw up a list of who I thought would be the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Of course this takes deciding from the bride and the groom... and well, the man who would be my groom just doesn't like to talk about this kind of thing right now. Anyway, I put all my obvious choices down and guess around at his. Then I try to pair them up, put them in order, and think about colors. As I am thinking through all my choices I stopped to think of the ones who are true friends; the ones who I love to talk to, the ones I love to hang out with, and the ones that put mutual effort into our friendship. Well, I fell a little short because at least two people I wrote down hardly even call me or see me anymore. One is a girl and one is a guy... and they would be an easy pair to erase off my little list. The thing is, I care about both of these people and I want them to share the day with me. But how can I count on them if they can't even hang out with me in life?
HA! I guess it doesn't really matter though. Brandon has made it clear he is not asking me anytime soon lol Which is ok I suppose... I mean, I know I want to marry him, but there are 'issues' that need to be tackled before we make the leap of marraige.
It is just fun to dream, you know? All my girl friends out there... you know what I'm talking about (wink).
no, I am not engaged.
But a girl can dream, can't she? I decided it wouldn't hurt to draw up a list of who I thought would be the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Of course this takes deciding from the bride and the groom... and well, the man who would be my groom just doesn't like to talk about this kind of thing right now. Anyway, I put all my obvious choices down and guess around at his. Then I try to pair them up, put them in order, and think about colors. As I am thinking through all my choices I stopped to think of the ones who are true friends; the ones who I love to talk to, the ones I love to hang out with, and the ones that put mutual effort into our friendship. Well, I fell a little short because at least two people I wrote down hardly even call me or see me anymore. One is a girl and one is a guy... and they would be an easy pair to erase off my little list. The thing is, I care about both of these people and I want them to share the day with me. But how can I count on them if they can't even hang out with me in life?
HA! I guess it doesn't really matter though. Brandon has made it clear he is not asking me anytime soon lol Which is ok I suppose... I mean, I know I want to marry him, but there are 'issues' that need to be tackled before we make the leap of marraige.
It is just fun to dream, you know? All my girl friends out there... you know what I'm talking about (wink).