You put too much into simple little things. You can't just jump right into a long term relationship, and expect the best out of it. You have to PRACTICE. It's like playing a sport, you're not gonna be good at it just WISHING things will work out. You need to get laid. End of story.
Okay in way I agree with Phoenix smasher up till that end part, sex has nothing to do with a good relationship. And anyone who tells you that is full of it and thinking with the wrong body part. I speak from experience, sadly. I have deluded myself down that avenue before, it's very damaging. But I guess I could say I have grown from it, but that may be in my own eyes only. But Mei listen to what your heart tells you, don't over think things. All you need to do is find your path in life and follow it... a holym-er-person once told me this advice. "Your path is yours and yours alone, you cannot walk someelses path. But paths do intersect and intertwine such is life". If you need to contact me at anytime just send a E-mail my way to let me know. thelosthibiki@yahoo.com
Though it was more of a joke, I still stand by it. Sex is vital to any "serious" relationship. Procreation of the species and whatnot. Dunno where I'm going with this. D;
because you wish to have my children of course Pheonix.
It's all so obvious. =P
The subconscious is usually the most truthful. xD
Also, what one deems as vital depends entirely upon what one places value in. My value in the physical is not very high, but my value in the mental and the emotional makes up the difference.
To me, sex just isn't important. My own sex drive is abnormally low for someone my age in this society, always has been, and about the only time I actually seek out physical contact of any sort is when I am depressed. *shrugs* Merely a personal preferance I suppose.
So whether sex is important in a serious relationship or not depends entirely pon the parties involved in the relationship. It's entirely relative.
*rolls eyes* Rachel, why the hell do you never call or IM me when you have issues like this running through your head? I'm the queen of over-analyzing thigns and I've been through or seen a lot of what you're going through minus the social malfunctions a lot of the other people we know exhibit. Pardon my arrogant tone in saying it this way, but you have people with sense sitting right under your damn nose and you don't make use of them. You and I are having a sit down one of these days or I'm going to shake you until your teeth rattle.
heh, step one. Believe it or not I've felt a million times better after getting it off my chest. 0.o
It's bizare, but I'm like... in the process of rewriting my exceptable association methods policy. Previous EAM policy had it that I was a good listener, that it was perfectly all right to take on anyone's burden's, but that I had to bear my own burden's on my own. Also that anything that was in my head bothering me was best to stay in my head bothering me because no one really cared anyway, so I shouldn't give it much thought either.
I'm sure you can see a few flaws in the philosophy. So I've decided to attempt to balance my personality out and stop being so drastic with things. >.< Whether this will turn out for good, or for bad... I do not know. *shrugs* But it will be an interesting experiment.
Besides, if honesty is really going to be my virtue than I aught to start actually being honest. xD
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It's like playing a sport, you're not gonna be good at it just WISHING things will work out. You need to get laid. End of story.
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It's all so obvious. =P
The subconscious is usually the most truthful. xD
Also, what one deems as vital depends entirely upon what one places value in. My value in the physical is not very high, but my value in the mental and the emotional makes up the difference.
To me, sex just isn't important. My own sex drive is abnormally low for someone my age in this society, always has been, and about the only time I actually seek out physical contact of any sort is when I am depressed. *shrugs* Merely a personal preferance I suppose.
So whether sex is important in a serious relationship or not depends entirely pon the parties involved in the relationship. It's entirely relative.
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And I'm taken, sorry. =(
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Hahha... wow... talk about your uneasy moments. I made a super long post similar to this one, but relented and modified it for various reasons.
just uhh... whoa.
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It's bizare, but I'm like... in the process of rewriting my exceptable association methods policy. Previous EAM policy had it that I was a good listener, that it was perfectly all right to take on anyone's burden's, but that I had to bear my own burden's on my own. Also that anything that was in my head bothering me was best to stay in my head bothering me because no one really cared anyway, so I shouldn't give it much thought either.
I'm sure you can see a few flaws in the philosophy. So I've decided to attempt to balance my personality out and stop being so drastic with things. >.< Whether this will turn out for good, or for bad... I do not know. *shrugs* But it will be an interesting experiment.
Besides, if honesty is really going to be my virtue than I aught to start actually being honest. xD
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