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mithrigil

SEXUAL HORROR: another Manifest

Sep 10, 2010 18:28

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So here I am, waiting for a train (a train that will take me far, far away from here, namely back to the city after a surprisingly lovely Rosh Hashanah dinner with my parents--happy new year, everyone! I've got eight days to get mine back on the right foot). And I recall that the other day, in my post about fightsex and why it is awesome, I also ( Read more... )

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pinstripesuit September 10 2010, 22:39:21 UTC

Another example of ghostsex would be Baltar and Six from Battlestar Galactica? Because she exists in his head for a lot of the series and they go at it like bunnies.

Please write more projection!Mal~

mithrigil September 10 2010, 22:42:47 UTC

YES. Yes, Baltar and Six are a prime example of this.

And I want to write more Mal, I really do~

pinstripesuit September 10 2010, 22:46:32 UTC

...projection!Mal with Medea overtones? :DDD

Because-- because I very much love the idea of combining Inception with mythology as an overlay of the dreamer's subconscious (if that makes any sense).

mithrigil September 10 2010, 22:48:19 UTC

No, it does, and I was nattering on about Eames as Argos vs. Eames as Dionysus yesterday, actually! But Medea is actually really apt to correlate Mal with.

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byzantienne September 10 2010, 22:39:58 UTC

I wouldn't expect there to be a sexually horrific Hello Kitty fic out there, though now that I've mentioned it there probably is one, but odds are you can foist this kink on any canon or characters you wish and have it remain in character, as long as you understand your characters' fears.

I AM MARU, AND I HAVE JUST GROWN MANY TENTACLES.

mithrigil September 10 2010, 22:43:26 UTC

And then the cat grass said, "WHOA. HOLY FUCKING SHIT, MAN."

nym_aulth September 10 2010, 23:27:09 UTC

Sometimes I feel like I'm not educated/nerdy/smart enough to fully comprehend your sexkink meta posts but, dude, I love reading them anyway XD They give me ideas (although possibly not exactly the ones you were talking about in here), so thank you!

mithrigil September 10 2010, 23:53:39 UTC

But ideas are all these are really for! And you're welcome.

gaerfindel September 11 2010, 00:31:43 UTC

I wonder, if a psychoanalyst were to go through and read all your various fanfic & fanfic-related material, would he even need to sit down with you for a "couch session?"

mithrigil September 11 2010, 00:40:24 UTC

Sometimes I wonder. But honestly, you'd be hard-pressed to find a shrink willing to try.

ariseishirou September 11 2010, 02:10:31 UTC

For me, sex and fear are linked concepts.

I think you may have elucidated why I'm not that into dubcon. Sex is all about messy funtimes for me, and could not make me feel less invaded. There was a lot of talk about "taking" and "being taken" when I was growing up but when it came right down to the act itself it was just two people trying to something mutually pleasurable with each other, like badminton only way more fun than badminton. There was fumbling and laughter and rushed apologies, not trepidation.

As such dubcon does nothing for me. I can't relate to a character who doesn't want sex who goes through with it anyway; if I was afraid for some reason there's absolutely no way I would hop into bed with someone - it seems like a very poor decision in the making. If you're afraid, it's likely you have a reason to be. Listen to those instincts and get the hell out of Dodge. Or, if you're entirely sure it's all in your head, at the very least stop and talk about it so your partner can reassure you.

That said rape I can absolutely ( ... )