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May 29, 2005 18:55

i am ashamed of my sister. she is dating a married man, no, not really dating. he is using her and she is letting him. she is his "lover". he calls her once a week if she is lucky. only comes over when he "wants some". she hates it, she wants a relationship. but she allows this to continue because he is dying of cancer (i know this sounds like a line, but he is also one of my patients and i know this to be true.) but he holds it over her.
he tells her he is gonna leave his wife for her. now he tells her he just wants a lover. he stands her up, gets mad when she wont sleep with him, hits on me (which makes me want to vomit) and tells her how hot i am and such (he has a better chance at dating the pope)
i mean, he is the true scum of the earth. he was hitting on a pregnant woman at work once, we all saw it. how can someone have as little self esteem as my sister? i cant even stand her to mention it because the last time he "dumped her" i told her if she goes back to him to not even talk to me about it because i dont want to hear and that she is stupid if she does. she did. he dumped her multiple times. i also just found out she gave him a key to her apartment.
ugh, my boyfriend and i are trying to set he up with a nice guy. the problem is he is a normal man. she doesnt seem to go for them ( i will spare you her dating history..although its sad)
i need to vent this, i dont understand her. i know she is lonely but being alone is better then putting up with this. i can barely stand to be around her. Am i wrong in being disgusted by her actions? i am trying to be a sister but my god.
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