the difference is subtle
Dream: Dave decides he is buying a new house and wants me to help him pick one out.
Nightmare: Dave decides he is buying a new house and wants me to help him knock a load-bearing wall out and replace it with brick.
I wake up thinking, I am gonna kill him.
Dream: Something happens and I wind up having to borrow Graham's car to go get help.
Nightmare: After the help is gotten I realize I had to pull the seat so far forward it is stuck there.
I wake up thinking, he is gonna kill me.
Yeah, these happened. I don't understand it either.
Nightmare: Dave decides he is buying a new house and wants me to help him knock a load-bearing wall out and replace it with brick.
I wake up thinking, I am gonna kill him.
Dream: Something happens and I wind up having to borrow Graham's car to go get help.
Nightmare: After the help is gotten I realize I had to pull the seat so far forward it is stuck there.
I wake up thinking, he is gonna kill me.
Yeah, these happened. I don't understand it either.