Need Advice on roommate.
Surprisingly enough, I got access to LJ at work. Almost everything else is blocked but LJ is up.
It`s boring now so I post on LJ.
It`s not that my life is so negative, it`s just that I vent the negative stuff here, you, dear reader, must be damn bored of it.
Apologies.
I`m near bankrupcy - because of recession - so I take a roommate. The girl-who-was-suppose-to-be-a-transboy-who-decide-she-was-a-really girly-girl-and-told-everyone-I-yes-I-regret-transition has serious borderline personnality issues.
She is great, yes, really great when in good moods but last Sunday, she decide to bring a new WOODEN bed in the appartment.... at midnight. MIDNIGHT. And to install it with her girlfriend.
Chriss, my downstairs neibhor went mad because the noises wake him up.
She didn`t excuse herself, instead, told that Chriss doesn`t work so he can tolerate noises. That she I was caught between the two of them and try to explain to her that bringing a big things in the stairs at midnight is not a good idea and that making noise in early morning to do revenge for Chriss insulting her was still not a good idea.
She reply that she has borderline issues so may do as she want.
And she continue bitching Chriss with her girlfriend.
Chriss sent me a mad email about this, threatening to complain to the landlord while the other was bitching so I`ve explode.
But I never explode as this.
I didn`t insult her but I yell as I never yell in ten years that I was fed up of being used by both of them.
It was not funny. She cried so I`ve apology.
She threatening me to move and I need to reimburse her all her rent. I promise her to never yell like this again.
The conflict went off with Chriss.
The thing is, we had a deal her and me. She do the food for us both, I do the dishes. I ask her politely thursday to put the bag of garbage out as she doesn`t work. I return from work late, at midnight, the bag of garbage was there and she was with her girlfriend.
She do food for HERSELF but not her dishes for her and her girlfriend. Her girlfriend is always there.
I`m angry, not speaking to her, trouble to sleep...
Then Friday morning at 4am. She install herself at her computer just beside my bed and begin to type loudly until 6am.
At 7am, she take her shower and decide to plug the hairdryer in the kitchen who is just beside my bed.
It wake me up as I work evening shift. I went angry. She never use the hairdryer. She told her girlfriend loudly, without talking to me that she had the right to prepare herself.
I went to speak to her angrily, she again told me that she was looking for a new room and that I needed to reimburse her her may rent that she already give me and
then, she told me she had make the noises with the computer and the noises with the hairdryer to revenge herself for the noise I make on the computer at 1am. she departed with her girlfriend.
I can`t reimburse her. She pay 200$ for everything while I pay 800$.
I`ve sent her a email explaining how I feel and give her two choices. To find another place for June or to sit down with me, separate chores and make clear rules.
Now, I`m really stressed. I can`t reimburse her. She didn`t sign anything.
I can`t afford to get a roommate who REVENGE HERSELf AND don`t do anything in the appart.
What should I do?
It`s boring now so I post on LJ.
It`s not that my life is so negative, it`s just that I vent the negative stuff here, you, dear reader, must be damn bored of it.
Apologies.
I`m near bankrupcy - because of recession - so I take a roommate. The girl-who-was-suppose-to-be-a-transboy-who-decide-she-was-a-really girly-girl-and-told-everyone-I-yes-I-regret-transition has serious borderline personnality issues.
She is great, yes, really great when in good moods but last Sunday, she decide to bring a new WOODEN bed in the appartment.... at midnight. MIDNIGHT. And to install it with her girlfriend.
Chriss, my downstairs neibhor went mad because the noises wake him up.
She didn`t excuse herself, instead, told that Chriss doesn`t work so he can tolerate noises. That she I was caught between the two of them and try to explain to her that bringing a big things in the stairs at midnight is not a good idea and that making noise in early morning to do revenge for Chriss insulting her was still not a good idea.
She reply that she has borderline issues so may do as she want.
And she continue bitching Chriss with her girlfriend.
Chriss sent me a mad email about this, threatening to complain to the landlord while the other was bitching so I`ve explode.
But I never explode as this.
I didn`t insult her but I yell as I never yell in ten years that I was fed up of being used by both of them.
It was not funny. She cried so I`ve apology.
She threatening me to move and I need to reimburse her all her rent. I promise her to never yell like this again.
The conflict went off with Chriss.
The thing is, we had a deal her and me. She do the food for us both, I do the dishes. I ask her politely thursday to put the bag of garbage out as she doesn`t work. I return from work late, at midnight, the bag of garbage was there and she was with her girlfriend.
She do food for HERSELF but not her dishes for her and her girlfriend. Her girlfriend is always there.
I`m angry, not speaking to her, trouble to sleep...
Then Friday morning at 4am. She install herself at her computer just beside my bed and begin to type loudly until 6am.
At 7am, she take her shower and decide to plug the hairdryer in the kitchen who is just beside my bed.
It wake me up as I work evening shift. I went angry. She never use the hairdryer. She told her girlfriend loudly, without talking to me that she had the right to prepare herself.
I went to speak to her angrily, she again told me that she was looking for a new room and that I needed to reimburse her her may rent that she already give me and
then, she told me she had make the noises with the computer and the noises with the hairdryer to revenge herself for the noise I make on the computer at 1am. she departed with her girlfriend.
I can`t reimburse her. She pay 200$ for everything while I pay 800$.
I`ve sent her a email explaining how I feel and give her two choices. To find another place for June or to sit down with me, separate chores and make clear rules.
Now, I`m really stressed. I can`t reimburse her. She didn`t sign anything.
I can`t afford to get a roommate who REVENGE HERSELf AND don`t do anything in the appart.
What should I do?