Reaction To Kevin J's Prenup Proposal
Once upon a time, he told someone he loved her, with all his heart. He told her she was the most beautiful someone he'd ever seen, and he wanted to spend his life with her. He offered to spend his whole life with her.
She took him up on it, excited and hopelessly, utterly in love.
He owned a lot of things. A whole island of things. She would view it from afar, in awe at all these things he'd come to claim. Surely, a person who had been able to accumulate this many things would be able to be a good provider for a family, and for herself. She had spent her life owning much less, you see, and this all felt like a fairy tale.
He told her he would give her anything, anything she ever wanted. She believed him. But even if he never told her that, she'd love him as fiercely as the first day.
Then, one day, he handed her a stick and asked her to draw a line. A line between her and his belongings. A line she wouldn't be able to cross if.... If. (WHEN.)
She held the stick in one hand.
And held it.
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...Okay, so I'm biased.
Now, I truly, truly, TRULY adore Kevin just as much as the other two, and I do not like him any less. But when I read about the prenup, my heart broke for Danielle.
Asking someone to sign a prenup basically feels like to me:
1) Implying you don't trust the other person.
2) Implying your relationship with the other person won't work out.
3) Implying that you consider your money before you consider the other person.
4) Giving the other person reason to doubt you/the relationship.
It's a logical move on Kevin's part, but it just feels so cut throat and business-oriented. Like, Kevin? Hon? Really???
And he asked this of her after the engagement and.... Props to Danielle if she sticks with it, and the absolute best for both of them, but.... I would seriously be hurt by this. But maybe that's just me being oversensitive.
(OMG, MY FIRST OFFICIAL POST ABOUT JB AND IT'S A WHINER. D: NOOOO....)