I stumble

[missy_peepers]

So I think this morning, after reading his messages stating that in fact he was not coming to see me for the second Sunday in a row, is when I realized our relationship isn't moving in the right direction. I cried for about an hour, wondering what I need to do to improve this relationship. I don't know what I can do anymore. He won't talk to me. He

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[exquisitegeek]

This sounds very much like an ex-boyfriend of mine. I thought I cared very very much for him, and he said he felt the same way. We saw eachother when it was convenient. He never called me; he never offered to go do anything with me. I was always the one trying to call him and track him down, and if I didn't, who knows how long it would have been before I heard from him. He wasn't reliable, and I was discontent.

Eventually, we ended it all. I was horribly upset at first, and I moped around for the longest time. Now? Now he doesn't even cross my mind. I have an amazingly perfect manfriend, and I can't imagine how I ever functioned without him.

I obviously don't know as much about your relationship as you do, but you sound so much like I did around this time last year. My first suggestion: Talk to him. Tell him everything that you wrote in here, and don't accept short appeasing answers from him. Communication is key.

If this does no good, then I'd take a short while to determine what's best for me. I don't doubt that you love him, but take the time to consider if you really want to keep chasing after a guy who takes you for granted.

I sound like my mother, but it's true. Don't bother being upset over a guy who doesn't completely adore you and treat you like you deserve to be treated. *nod*