yea, i understand that you had to work, it's cool.
um, a big part of the reason i'm upset is that i feel like im always the one trying to fix things and always the one to have to go up and talk to you guys, mainly sarah. What i've been feeling lately is that the relationship is very one sided, which is why i said i've done all i can by putting it out there. It would be hypocritical of me to try to chase you guys down and tell you whats going on when i dont feel you care.
again, this is mostly with sarah, not you.. altough im not saying you shouldnt get involved because it does concern you, what im saying is that i know that you care more and i love you for that and i know that you do talk to me and take me places and stuff. The problem is that you always worry about what Sarah thinks, and i know that if there was a problem b/w me and her, it would carry on to me and you, and you would not understand anyones point of view except hers.
when sarah came up to me, i accepted her apology and everything, but the thing is i didnt really think she understood what exactly i was feeling, and she still made no attempt to try to fix things, i mean just by saying sorry isnt going to magically change everything. the rest of that day she still didnt speak a word to me.
i know no one did anything. I've just been feeling that Sarah doesnt take people's feelings into consideration and is only my friend when its convenient. Im pushing away because i didnt know what else to do.
we do need to talk, foril, im just tired of me the one to take initiative. And im glad you care.. at least we can talk and straighten things out, cuz im not mad, im just hurt by this, but im getting the feeling sarah doesnt want to try anymore.
missel! wtf. i asked y why u were so sad about everything. u didnt even tell me why! u said "whatever!" i was like "whatever nothing! y are u upset?!"
and i def did try to talk to u, its not my fault u igmored me at lunch. i asked u a question, and u didnt even look up. so i just said forget it, and walked away.
i dont take ppls feelings into consideration?! ive been asking EVERYBODY what i can do to fix this! EVERYBODY!!!
ur def not the one trying to take the initiative. u havent done anything but write in ur LJ.
are u trying to punish me by not talking to me or something? i dont get it.
The only way this will be resolved is if you guys just talk to each other (when you are ready) *In person* Until then no more talking about it on LJ! I hate when people fight on this thing its so gay. I'm over it.
If everybody would restrict their beef to real life convos a lot of drama could be avoided without involving the entire LJ community.
the reason that i didnt talk to you when you apologized was that i felt like you didnt really know what you were apologizing for, and were just doing it to get it over with, without being sincere.
i realize know that you were sincere, so im sorry for not taking it that way.
i didnt mean to ignore you, i just felt like i needed to distance myself to really think about what was going on.
in regards to writing in LJ, in my original post concerning this, i really didnt update just to write about this. I started writing, and my feelings just kind of started pouring out. I didnt mean for it to blow out of proportion, but i do realize that i shouldnt have posted it.
Ok... I didn't want to get into this. I usually try to stay out of other people's business, but since you posted this for everyone to see, I guess you don't mind. Please don't get mad at anything I say here. I'm only saying it because I'm trying to help. I love you both and I want us all to be friends.
I understand that you feel leftout sometimes and that you feel like you have to put all the work into it. The thing is, I'm sure Sarah doesn't do it on purpose. She's not trying to push u away. She loves you! We all do. I'm sorry you feel this way and I hope we can all help make it better.
She told me that she apologized to you, but you blew her off. Maybe she doesn't understand how u feel... but how do u expect her to figure it out if you won't talk to her? Livejournal doesn't count... if you have a problem with someone u should talk to them in person. If there is one mistake you made it was posting all this on LJ. It never makes these kinds of things better, only worse. If I was Sarah I would hurt my feelings to have you talking crap about me behind my back on LJ.
Are you trying to punish her for not being a good enough friend by not talking to her? Do you even WANT to be friends again?
I'm not saying you are wrong and she is right... I'm just trying to say that this can be easily resolved. Stop being mad and try to make it work... please I can't take this drama anymore.
the only mistake u made in that comment is saying i just care what sarah thinks...i care what you think too! u know when u talked to me i listened and i told u my honest opinion...i just want everything to be the same....seriously *sigh*
um, a big part of the reason i'm upset is that i feel like im always the one trying to fix things and always the one to have to go up and talk to you guys, mainly sarah. What i've been feeling lately is that the relationship is very one sided, which is why i said i've done all i can by putting it out there. It would be hypocritical of me to try to chase you guys down and tell you whats going on when i dont feel you care.
again, this is mostly with sarah, not you.. altough im not saying you shouldnt get involved because it does concern you, what im saying is that i know that you care more and i love you for that and i know that you do talk to me and take me places and stuff. The problem is that you always worry about what Sarah thinks, and i know that if there was a problem b/w me and her, it would carry on to me and you, and you would not understand anyones point of view except hers.
when sarah came up to me, i accepted her apology and everything, but the thing is i didnt really think she understood what exactly i was feeling, and she still made no attempt to try to fix things, i mean just by saying sorry isnt going to magically change everything. the rest of that day she still didnt speak a word to me.
i know no one did anything. I've just been feeling that Sarah doesnt take people's feelings into consideration and is only my friend when its convenient. Im pushing away because i didnt know what else to do.
we do need to talk, foril, im just tired of me the one to take initiative. And im glad you care.. at least we can talk and straighten things out, cuz im not mad, im just hurt by this, but im getting the feeling sarah doesnt want to try anymore.
i agree with louis about the lock-in.
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with lots of vaseline!!
and jello wrestling!!!
and PIE!!
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and PIE!!!
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and i def did try to talk to u, its not my fault u igmored me at lunch. i asked u a question, and u didnt even look up. so i just said forget it, and walked away.
i dont take ppls feelings into consideration?! ive been asking EVERYBODY what i can do to fix this! EVERYBODY!!!
ur def not the one trying to take the initiative. u havent done anything but write in ur LJ.
are u trying to punish me by not talking to me or something? i dont get it.
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no one can tell u how to fix a friendship. You have to figure out what makes that friendship work for yourself yo. ur smart and i know u can.
if u dont talk to her then who will?
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The only way this will be resolved is if you guys just talk to each other (when you are ready) *In person* Until then no more talking about it on LJ! I hate when people fight on this thing its so gay. I'm over it.
If everybody would restrict their beef to real life convos a lot of drama could be avoided without involving the entire LJ community.
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the reason that i didnt talk to you when you apologized was that i felt like you didnt really know what you were apologizing for, and were just doing it to get it over with, without being sincere.
i realize know that you were sincere, so im sorry for not taking it that way.
i didnt mean to ignore you, i just felt like i needed to distance myself to really think about what was going on.
in regards to writing in LJ, in my original post concerning this, i really didnt update just to write about this. I started writing, and my feelings just kind of started pouring out. I didnt mean for it to blow out of proportion, but i do realize that i shouldnt have posted it.
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I didn't want to get into this. I usually try to stay out of other people's business, but since you posted this for everyone to see, I guess you don't mind.
Please don't get mad at anything I say here. I'm only saying it because I'm trying to help. I love you both and I want us all to be friends.
I understand that you feel leftout sometimes and that you feel like you have to put all the work into it. The thing is, I'm sure Sarah doesn't do it on purpose. She's not trying to push u away. She loves you! We all do. I'm sorry you feel this way and I hope we can all help make it better.
She told me that she apologized to you, but you blew her off. Maybe she doesn't understand how u feel... but how do u expect her to figure it out if you won't talk to her? Livejournal doesn't count... if you have a problem with someone u should talk to them in person. If there is one mistake you made it was posting all this on LJ. It never makes these kinds of things better, only worse. If I was Sarah I would hurt my feelings to have you talking crap about me behind my back on LJ.
Are you trying to punish her for not being a good enough friend by not talking to her? Do you even WANT to be friends again?
I'm not saying you are wrong and she is right... I'm just trying to say that this can be easily resolved. Stop being mad and try to make it work... please I can't take this drama anymore.
Please stop being mad! I love u!
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i understand you care, so no, im not mad about what you said, its true.
of course i want to be friends again, what i dont want is for me to be the only one to do so.
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