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The following is a comment left by ai_am on a sgselltrade post
sorry bout the outburst. lol.
but I've been warned about her before, by girls who've had transactions with her. They say they had bad experiences, like her rudely requesting for refunds over nothing, insisting a BRAND NEW mascara smelled weird and demanded an exchange/refund and was a super bitch about the whole thing.
but i received nice emails from her and thought about it and afterall, it was just the other girls' speculations and decided to go ahead with the deal and WHO KNEW..
ARGH. Hope she'll learn her lesson! Is public shaming not enough?
Resorting to underhand methods to get freebies and refunds for things she ends up changing her bloody fickle mind about is SO CHEAPSKATE. pun intended (bold-ed it in case anyone didn't get it).
I'M PISSED. :x
Firstly, I have NEVER bought mascara from ANYONE on this community, where she heard that rumour from, I really don't know. Also, as for the requesting of refunds, I have NEVER asked anyone who has sold me anything for refunds at ALL. I can allow someone I trust to raid my gmail account - the trash and the inbox to check if I have EVER asked for refunds at all. If someone had a bad experience with me, they should leave it in my feedback - why is she stating all this when there is no proof? I repeat, I have NEVER bought mascara from anyone in the community. I find her extremely childish and her statements seem to have no proof in them whatsoever. Thanks.
Misstreschic and maomi = TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
Maomi, or szehui, as I know her, is a close friend of mine.
What did you lie about in my application ?
My name.
Why did you lie about my name?
Kate's just a nick I usually go by plus I was going to help maomi sell items. She told me not to give my real name in case someone from school was in the community and found out.
What?
Okay, so the community rules didnt state that you cannot sell for a banned user but she wanted to be on the safe side. Not ALL the items I sold were for her, some were mine. However, all were sold under my charge, thus I helped ensured that nothing that occured previously under her would happen again.
So why were you banned?
I repeat, I am NOT maomi. You can call me Kate, but I am not Szehui. I was banned for lying about my name and that was my mistake and wrong.
What's up with you and ai_am?
In relation to the comment she left here,
The following below is an email I sent her :
I would like to refer to the previous emails to clear my name and
prove my point.
On 11th September, 3.32 pm, you emailed me with your account number
and told me to transfer the money. At 4.18pm, I replied saying that I
would either do it today or tomorrow. ( September 11 was a Sunday )
The next day,12th September, Monday, at 6.33pm, I emailed you on my
own initiative to let you know that I was having my prelims and asked
if you could give me till Wednesday, the 14th of September to transfer
the money. You replied at 6.43pm and I replied with a 'thanks' at
6.44pm. Up to this point of time, both of us were very polite.
On September 14th, Wednesday, you left a comment to ask me if I had
made payment. This was my mistake because I thought that I had told
you to give me till the weekend. I not only replied your comment, I
also replied your email on September 14th at 9.18pm with this email
so sorry dear!!
i thought i told you till the weekend but i said wednesday! haha..
i cant get out of the house, do you have paypal? :D i can pay through
that if you want :)
I did not recieve any reply regarding this email and on September 16th
at 9.17pm, which was two days after my last email to you and without
any reply from you, I emailed you saying that I had transferred the
money. I gave you my transaction reference number and the mailing
address.
Two days later, on September 18th, after not hearing from you for 6
days, I emailed you again with this polite email at 9.10am
hi, i've been emailing you but there's been no reply, pls reply!!
love, kate
there was no sign of rudeness or hostility in this message. On that
same day, September 18th, Sunday, you replied saying that your email
had problems signing in and that you would check for payment and mail
it out accordingly. As a buyer, it is a usual habit that the seller
inform the buyer on the status of the item. I do that all the time and
as a seller, I also updated you on the status of the payment and also
took the initiative to email you as mentioned above.
On September 20th, Tuesday, two days after no reply from you or any
information about the item, I emailed you at 3.08pm with this email
hi, you never replied me whether you checked your account or not.
the money HAS been transferred but i have not heard from you at all,
please mail out the item asap and please reply me or i will have to
resort to other means. thanks.
love, kate
I agree that 'resort to other means' sounded harsh but other than
that, I was keeping a neutral tone and even signed off with 'love'.
After two days without information and despite my fast replies to your
emails and comments, you failed to inform me about my item. Not only
that, you replied my email with a rude message on September 20th,
4.18pm as such
....
don't know why the freaking hell you're getting pissed
with this. I MERELY SAID I ONLY RECEIVED ONE EMAIL
ABOUT THE TRANSACTION. Is that worth getting angry
over? To think I chose not to trust other girls who
tell me negative shit about you and adviced me not to
go ahead with the transaction. Have never had such an
unpleasant transaction in a long, long time.
Will mail out scarf tomorrow.
As a seller, you were not only rude in replying, you also maligned me
of actions that I did not do. You said that I was pissed and I never
mentioned that I was angry over you recieving one email about the
transaction. Throughout our email exchanges, I was never once angry
about you saying that you 'only recieved one email about the
transaction' so I would like you to take your words back. Also, as a
seller, you brought in your personal emotions and made a personal
attack on me which I felt was very uncalled for. Our exchanges in
emails remained neutral and I never threw any mean or attacking words
at you, thus I feel that there was no need for you to do so as well.
You said that it was an unpleasant transaction but I would like to
know which part of it was unpleasant. For my mistake and forgetting
the payment, I apologized in my email and I never said anything
hurting or harmful to you. I made my payment two days later and kept
you updated and even emailed you to ask about my item on initiative. I
would like to recieve an explanation from you and if you do not have
the past emails and would like evidence, I would gladly print the
screen for you to view.
Thank you for your attention.
Regards,
Kate
After which, she wrote a reply as follows :
hahaha. You really are very free. Give me your account
number, I will be doing a refund. Please do expect a
refund within 2 days of emailing me your account
number.
I think for the benefit of both parties, this
transaction should not be carried out. Really.
So then I asked her to send the scarf out as I had transferred the money and did not want to waste my effort. There were rude words exchanged by myself and her, which I find childish, both on my part and hers.
A week after she said she had posted it, I had yet to recieve the scarf. Due to the previous argument, it was my fault that I somehow had the idea in my head that she didnt really mail out the item, thus I sent her this email
i have YET to recieve the scarf AT all..
In which she replied with
well, I HAVE ALREADY sent it out. So technically, IT'S
OFF MY HANDS, since you did not opt for registered
mail. in any case, I sent it out at the BRAS BASAR PO
and you can go ahead and fill in the missing package
form.
In which afterwards very rude comments were made by herself and myself, which again, I think I was acting so stupidly. I thought that she would not make this into a drama but she went and posted that comment on the mod's entry. So that's about it. I'm done standing up for myself.
sorry bout the outburst. lol.
but I've been warned about her before, by girls who've had transactions with her. They say they had bad experiences, like her rudely requesting for refunds over nothing, insisting a BRAND NEW mascara smelled weird and demanded an exchange/refund and was a super bitch about the whole thing.
but i received nice emails from her and thought about it and afterall, it was just the other girls' speculations and decided to go ahead with the deal and WHO KNEW..
ARGH. Hope she'll learn her lesson! Is public shaming not enough?
Resorting to underhand methods to get freebies and refunds for things she ends up changing her bloody fickle mind about is SO CHEAPSKATE. pun intended (bold-ed it in case anyone didn't get it).
I'M PISSED. :x
Firstly, I have NEVER bought mascara from ANYONE on this community, where she heard that rumour from, I really don't know. Also, as for the requesting of refunds, I have NEVER asked anyone who has sold me anything for refunds at ALL. I can allow someone I trust to raid my gmail account - the trash and the inbox to check if I have EVER asked for refunds at all. If someone had a bad experience with me, they should leave it in my feedback - why is she stating all this when there is no proof? I repeat, I have NEVER bought mascara from anyone in the community. I find her extremely childish and her statements seem to have no proof in them whatsoever. Thanks.
Misstreschic and maomi = TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
Maomi, or szehui, as I know her, is a close friend of mine.
What did you lie about in my application ?
My name.
Why did you lie about my name?
Kate's just a nick I usually go by plus I was going to help maomi sell items. She told me not to give my real name in case someone from school was in the community and found out.
What?
Okay, so the community rules didnt state that you cannot sell for a banned user but she wanted to be on the safe side. Not ALL the items I sold were for her, some were mine. However, all were sold under my charge, thus I helped ensured that nothing that occured previously under her would happen again.
So why were you banned?
I repeat, I am NOT maomi. You can call me Kate, but I am not Szehui. I was banned for lying about my name and that was my mistake and wrong.
What's up with you and ai_am?
In relation to the comment she left here,
The following below is an email I sent her :
I would like to refer to the previous emails to clear my name and
prove my point.
On 11th September, 3.32 pm, you emailed me with your account number
and told me to transfer the money. At 4.18pm, I replied saying that I
would either do it today or tomorrow. ( September 11 was a Sunday )
The next day,12th September, Monday, at 6.33pm, I emailed you on my
own initiative to let you know that I was having my prelims and asked
if you could give me till Wednesday, the 14th of September to transfer
the money. You replied at 6.43pm and I replied with a 'thanks' at
6.44pm. Up to this point of time, both of us were very polite.
On September 14th, Wednesday, you left a comment to ask me if I had
made payment. This was my mistake because I thought that I had told
you to give me till the weekend. I not only replied your comment, I
also replied your email on September 14th at 9.18pm with this email
so sorry dear!!
i thought i told you till the weekend but i said wednesday! haha..
i cant get out of the house, do you have paypal? :D i can pay through
that if you want :)
I did not recieve any reply regarding this email and on September 16th
at 9.17pm, which was two days after my last email to you and without
any reply from you, I emailed you saying that I had transferred the
money. I gave you my transaction reference number and the mailing
address.
Two days later, on September 18th, after not hearing from you for 6
days, I emailed you again with this polite email at 9.10am
hi, i've been emailing you but there's been no reply, pls reply!!
love, kate
there was no sign of rudeness or hostility in this message. On that
same day, September 18th, Sunday, you replied saying that your email
had problems signing in and that you would check for payment and mail
it out accordingly. As a buyer, it is a usual habit that the seller
inform the buyer on the status of the item. I do that all the time and
as a seller, I also updated you on the status of the payment and also
took the initiative to email you as mentioned above.
On September 20th, Tuesday, two days after no reply from you or any
information about the item, I emailed you at 3.08pm with this email
hi, you never replied me whether you checked your account or not.
the money HAS been transferred but i have not heard from you at all,
please mail out the item asap and please reply me or i will have to
resort to other means. thanks.
love, kate
I agree that 'resort to other means' sounded harsh but other than
that, I was keeping a neutral tone and even signed off with 'love'.
After two days without information and despite my fast replies to your
emails and comments, you failed to inform me about my item. Not only
that, you replied my email with a rude message on September 20th,
4.18pm as such
....
don't know why the freaking hell you're getting pissed
with this. I MERELY SAID I ONLY RECEIVED ONE EMAIL
ABOUT THE TRANSACTION. Is that worth getting angry
over? To think I chose not to trust other girls who
tell me negative shit about you and adviced me not to
go ahead with the transaction. Have never had such an
unpleasant transaction in a long, long time.
Will mail out scarf tomorrow.
As a seller, you were not only rude in replying, you also maligned me
of actions that I did not do. You said that I was pissed and I never
mentioned that I was angry over you recieving one email about the
transaction. Throughout our email exchanges, I was never once angry
about you saying that you 'only recieved one email about the
transaction' so I would like you to take your words back. Also, as a
seller, you brought in your personal emotions and made a personal
attack on me which I felt was very uncalled for. Our exchanges in
emails remained neutral and I never threw any mean or attacking words
at you, thus I feel that there was no need for you to do so as well.
You said that it was an unpleasant transaction but I would like to
know which part of it was unpleasant. For my mistake and forgetting
the payment, I apologized in my email and I never said anything
hurting or harmful to you. I made my payment two days later and kept
you updated and even emailed you to ask about my item on initiative. I
would like to recieve an explanation from you and if you do not have
the past emails and would like evidence, I would gladly print the
screen for you to view.
Thank you for your attention.
Regards,
Kate
After which, she wrote a reply as follows :
hahaha. You really are very free. Give me your account
number, I will be doing a refund. Please do expect a
refund within 2 days of emailing me your account
number.
I think for the benefit of both parties, this
transaction should not be carried out. Really.
So then I asked her to send the scarf out as I had transferred the money and did not want to waste my effort. There were rude words exchanged by myself and her, which I find childish, both on my part and hers.
A week after she said she had posted it, I had yet to recieve the scarf. Due to the previous argument, it was my fault that I somehow had the idea in my head that she didnt really mail out the item, thus I sent her this email
i have YET to recieve the scarf AT all..
In which she replied with
well, I HAVE ALREADY sent it out. So technically, IT'S
OFF MY HANDS, since you did not opt for registered
mail. in any case, I sent it out at the BRAS BASAR PO
and you can go ahead and fill in the missing package
form.
In which afterwards very rude comments were made by herself and myself, which again, I think I was acting so stupidly. I thought that she would not make this into a drama but she went and posted that comment on the mod's entry. So that's about it. I'm done standing up for myself.