I AM SO SICK OF TOXIC PEOPLE!
This is a long story I'm going to edit for the sake of you reading this.
Mike - Husband
Alesha - Mike's sister
"mom" - Joanne - their mom, my 'mother-in-law'
Kevin - My father-in-law, Mike's dad, Alesha's step-dad (but raised her for her entire life)
Basically, joanne left mike and kevin when mike turned 18 for no reason, could never give a reason, anything. joanne told alesha that she left because kevin cheated on her. mike didnt talk to joanne for 2 years because of circumstances i'm not going to divulge into here, but trust me, if you knew it, you wouldnt talk to her either.
Recently, mike has been talking to joanna a lot. mostly because of me, but i have been talking to her too. everything so far has been going well, no drama, no issues to speak of.
I have never once met or spoken to alesha at all whatsoever.
Before mike and i got married, he sent an email to his mom and alesha saying he'd met me and we were going to get married and all that stuff, his mom replied with how happy she was for us and everything, but alesha replied with how much of an asshole he is and how little self respect i must have for marrying a man like him, before she even said a word to me.
now on to what i've been trying to get at:
This is what I said to Alesha in an email:
I just wanted to say hi, and merry christmas, and all that jazz. I hope you have a great christmas, and i hope your pregnancy is going well. I'm sorry we've yet to meet, hopefully we can soon. I know your mom is coming out in May, maybe sometime around then?
Take care.
Love,
Melody
*also with that christmas card picture thingy i posted yesterday*
This is what she replied with:
Save it, you wont be able to make nice with me. I dont keep in touch with that side of the family after I learned my step dad cheated on my mom and my little brother refused to speak to her for three years because of it.
One piece of advice, that i shouldnt expect you to take, although i am shocked your own mother didnt already give this to you. If you want to know how good a man is...take a look at how he treats his mother. That should sum up how I feel about my little brother seeing as he treats our mother like the scum under his shoe when she loved him and raised him and gave birth to him. Incidentaly he idolizes the real scum under his shoe which is his father.
Good luck in your marriage, or playing house or whatever it is two kids do who are married and still live at home...you probably wont ever meet me because either: a. you will be out of the picture by the time I see that side of the family again, or: b. this email will piss you off so much that you will compeltely avoid every single function I am at. Which wont be any, i promise.
Oh as far as my mom coming out here, she probably isnt anymore seeing as how we wont live here by then and she will probably be spending her money and vacation on seeing the people who care about her, and of course her new newborn grandchild whom she always makes an effort to keep a relationship with.
If you see my brother or step father tell them my oldest son sends a big THANK YOU for ignoring him on his birthday, and what the hell, go ahead and send the same thanks for my youngest son whom they will all ignore as well.
One last thing, it pisses me off that Mike has a picture of my darling sweet little boy on his myspace when the prick hasnt even looked in his direction or spoken one word to him in almost a year. So, if it pleases you, take it down.
dont bother replying, you are on my ignore list now.
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Mike - Husband
Alesha - Mike's sister
"mom" - Joanne - their mom, my 'mother-in-law'
Kevin - My father-in-law, Mike's dad, Alesha's step-dad (but raised her for her entire life)
Basically, joanne left mike and kevin when mike turned 18 for no reason, could never give a reason, anything. joanne told alesha that she left because kevin cheated on her. mike didnt talk to joanne for 2 years because of circumstances i'm not going to divulge into here, but trust me, if you knew it, you wouldnt talk to her either.
Recently, mike has been talking to joanna a lot. mostly because of me, but i have been talking to her too. everything so far has been going well, no drama, no issues to speak of.
I have never once met or spoken to alesha at all whatsoever.
Before mike and i got married, he sent an email to his mom and alesha saying he'd met me and we were going to get married and all that stuff, his mom replied with how happy she was for us and everything, but alesha replied with how much of an asshole he is and how little self respect i must have for marrying a man like him, before she even said a word to me.
now on to what i've been trying to get at:
This is what I said to Alesha in an email:
I just wanted to say hi, and merry christmas, and all that jazz. I hope you have a great christmas, and i hope your pregnancy is going well. I'm sorry we've yet to meet, hopefully we can soon. I know your mom is coming out in May, maybe sometime around then?
Take care.
Love,
Melody
*also with that christmas card picture thingy i posted yesterday*
This is what she replied with:
Save it, you wont be able to make nice with me. I dont keep in touch with that side of the family after I learned my step dad cheated on my mom and my little brother refused to speak to her for three years because of it.
One piece of advice, that i shouldnt expect you to take, although i am shocked your own mother didnt already give this to you. If you want to know how good a man is...take a look at how he treats his mother. That should sum up how I feel about my little brother seeing as he treats our mother like the scum under his shoe when she loved him and raised him and gave birth to him. Incidentaly he idolizes the real scum under his shoe which is his father.
Good luck in your marriage, or playing house or whatever it is two kids do who are married and still live at home...you probably wont ever meet me because either: a. you will be out of the picture by the time I see that side of the family again, or: b. this email will piss you off so much that you will compeltely avoid every single function I am at. Which wont be any, i promise.
Oh as far as my mom coming out here, she probably isnt anymore seeing as how we wont live here by then and she will probably be spending her money and vacation on seeing the people who care about her, and of course her new newborn grandchild whom she always makes an effort to keep a relationship with.
If you see my brother or step father tell them my oldest son sends a big THANK YOU for ignoring him on his birthday, and what the hell, go ahead and send the same thanks for my youngest son whom they will all ignore as well.
One last thing, it pisses me off that Mike has a picture of my darling sweet little boy on his myspace when the prick hasnt even looked in his direction or spoken one word to him in almost a year. So, if it pleases you, take it down.
dont bother replying, you are on my ignore list now.
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WHATISTHEMOTHERFUCKINGDEAL?
kfgjalkfjg;lkajfdg;ljkafhg