Two Dollars and Fifteen Cents!
A friend told me the other night that I become easily emotionally attached to people. And I couldnt deny it. I just don't see how it is a problem. I see how it could be one, but not how it is.
When someone awesome enters my life and I enjoy their presence, yes I do get a little obsessive. I dream about them I fantasize about them, I ponder the essence of them. Also pondering what I like about them. It keeps my mind busy. But i dont stalk them, I dont harass them. I generally keep a safe distance from them. Occationally I will make a daring move and actually touch them or flirt with them or otherwise make my interest known. If I am not given positive sign then I back off. If rules are set down I follow those rules to the best of my ablity, I am only human afterall.
I've been pondering the words of that friend. and adknowledging different parts of my personality, accessing them, and deciding My opinion of the quirk. Change or keep and accept. I am who I am, like all humans I fuck up. I accept that, my goal is to minimize the fuck ups and do what I need to for my happiness, while imposing on others happiness as little as possible. But above all... I am responsible for everything I do. Either I do things that will make me happy or I do things to make myself more miserable. My actions reinforce my emotional state. Basic psychology, all quite simple.
When someone awesome enters my life and I enjoy their presence, yes I do get a little obsessive. I dream about them I fantasize about them, I ponder the essence of them. Also pondering what I like about them. It keeps my mind busy. But i dont stalk them, I dont harass them. I generally keep a safe distance from them. Occationally I will make a daring move and actually touch them or flirt with them or otherwise make my interest known. If I am not given positive sign then I back off. If rules are set down I follow those rules to the best of my ablity, I am only human afterall.
I've been pondering the words of that friend. and adknowledging different parts of my personality, accessing them, and deciding My opinion of the quirk. Change or keep and accept. I am who I am, like all humans I fuck up. I accept that, my goal is to minimize the fuck ups and do what I need to for my happiness, while imposing on others happiness as little as possible. But above all... I am responsible for everything I do. Either I do things that will make me happy or I do things to make myself more miserable. My actions reinforce my emotional state. Basic psychology, all quite simple.