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so this past weekend matts family came to town. The were coming friday night, then changed it to saturday morning then back to friday night. His mom lost her key and since Matt was working I had to be there to let them in. I stayed up til they got in at 1am (hello, I go to bed early,) an proceeded to stay up until 4am. The next day everyone gets up, we check out his sisters new apartment, head to the mall for like 4 hours of shopping for matt and ended with dinner and a movie. We didn't get out of dinner til after 930 so we headed home since that was past the time of the movie starting. His mom ended up getting sick from the food and we just layed around til 12 when everyone went to bed. Not to mention it rained it ass off Saturday. Sunday everyone got moving around noon and we saw a 4 oclock movie, we went a lil earlier to walk around the avenue. They wanted to see a cartoon and I didn't do they suggested something else which his sister didn't wanna see so we all ended up seeing Cyrus. It ended up sucking. So on the way home the plan was to cookout, I bought chicken, burgers, hotdogs, coleslaw and macaroni salad, of course his mom wanted baked potatos (who does that for a cook out?) so we had to hit the store by this time its 630 by the time we get back its 730 so I couldn't stay for dinner I needed to go home since I unlike everyone else actually had to work the next day.
I thought it was all no big deal.. Next day matt hits me with I didn't try for his mom, I didn't talk he doesn't want her to not understand why he wants to marry me when the time comes. WTF! I stayed up late, spent money I should've saved for the trip, did everything they wanted except for see a cartoon and i didn't try? I don't care? WTF!!!!!
So yesterday I come home to my dad saying I'm selfish and I can't always have my way and I need to be nice to matts mom and family and not dislike. First off, I never said I dislike them and I did try. Funny thing is matt gets all stressed when his mom comes to town because all she does is nit pick and critize and I'm supposed to be thrilled shes here. I tried to talk here and there when I had something to say, but if I don't I'll be quiet. I'm quiet until I get to know you and I've met her twice in 6 months. I mean really.
So matt came over yesterday (i had no clue he was going to) and the fight started again bc I told him I didn't like being attacked by my dad and my dad being a hypocrite. I don't care that matt told my dad I tell my family stuff to although this time I didn't tell him anything. An then it just tailspinned into me not caring and not trying with his mom. Then my grandma got envolved and told me to be nice and i dont have to like her, and I ended up crying and leaving mattand my grand mom outside after going in in tears and screaming I'm done with both of you!
Since all that I have no idea whats going on, I haven't heard from matt. His partner was with him and saw the show he said he'd talk to him I told him I don't even care at this point.
What do I do? Am I really that selfish?
I thought it was all no big deal.. Next day matt hits me with I didn't try for his mom, I didn't talk he doesn't want her to not understand why he wants to marry me when the time comes. WTF! I stayed up late, spent money I should've saved for the trip, did everything they wanted except for see a cartoon and i didn't try? I don't care? WTF!!!!!
So yesterday I come home to my dad saying I'm selfish and I can't always have my way and I need to be nice to matts mom and family and not dislike. First off, I never said I dislike them and I did try. Funny thing is matt gets all stressed when his mom comes to town because all she does is nit pick and critize and I'm supposed to be thrilled shes here. I tried to talk here and there when I had something to say, but if I don't I'll be quiet. I'm quiet until I get to know you and I've met her twice in 6 months. I mean really.
So matt came over yesterday (i had no clue he was going to) and the fight started again bc I told him I didn't like being attacked by my dad and my dad being a hypocrite. I don't care that matt told my dad I tell my family stuff to although this time I didn't tell him anything. An then it just tailspinned into me not caring and not trying with his mom. Then my grandma got envolved and told me to be nice and i dont have to like her, and I ended up crying and leaving mattand my grand mom outside after going in in tears and screaming I'm done with both of you!
Since all that I have no idea whats going on, I haven't heard from matt. His partner was with him and saw the show he said he'd talk to him I told him I don't even care at this point.
What do I do? Am I really that selfish?