Wow..... I don't even................. wow

Apr 21, 2014 10:23

Recently I made a post on FB about clearing up my friendlist. I mostly meant to get rid of some family and people I don't communicate with.

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helliongoddess April 21 2014, 17:22:30 UTC
Dont you love it when people who barely know you not only tell you how to run your life, but give you a psychiatric diagnosis?

But really, honestly, you've just added another to my already very long list of reasons to shut down my own f'ing FB account. From what I can see, all it ever does is cause problems. Its the one form of social media more than any other where the problems it causes far outweigh any benefits. Screw it. I freaking hate it. And for the record, I'm never ignoring you there, I just hate FB so I NEVER go there other than to post political stuff now and then (and then I'm not actually logging in, just clicking a "post on FB" link)and I'd rather talk to you via other means. I honestly think the only reason I've kept mine open even this long is it's the only way I have of poking our two Brit friends when they go underground. But I think I'll just ask them for their phone numbers and spring for an overseas phone call if I really get that desperately worried, and chuck FB.

I've been getting ready to do a similar spring cleaning of my LJ account - I have people on my f-list I have NO earthly idea who they are, plus old accounts from ancient long-gone RP's. I hope I don't get any nastygrams. (I doubt anyone cares that much, Ive been such a ghost lately!)

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missingkitsune April 21 2014, 18:18:41 UTC
Thing is... I knew her in highschool. She was no where near as shy as I was. Plus I never shared all the bullying that was going on, I just kept it inside.
She deleted that message and sent me a personal one. "No, it's not always about you, my son committed suicide. Try to live through THAT!"

So since I was now pissed off I replied in kind. "So because you've had a rough time that totally invalidates any feelings I have?? Sounds like a you problem. Don't even bother talking to me anymore. It's not all about you either. You are not making one bit of sense. Good day." I went ahead and blocked her ass after that.

I don't need this kinda shit. It has nothing to do with me. I had no idea he son did that. And how in the hell does that affect me and what I'm trying to do?

I mostly just keep FB for the games and a few friends I wouldn't other wise talk to. BUT NO ONE has the right to try to tell me what to do. I guess I'm just an uncaring bitch after all. Look how I handled Mom dying. *shrug*

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suanz April 22 2014, 10:44:04 UTC
Dun say that. I care, even though I'm not actively posting. More like actively lurking. XD

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missingkitsune April 22 2014, 16:22:36 UTC
I'm mostly just lurking here on lj myself.
But seriously I really just feel like I'm uncaring about some people's problems.

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suanz April 23 2014, 14:05:05 UTC
I think it's normal to feel that way. We cannot possibly feel for everyone. *hugs*

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jakondas April 22 2014, 19:01:32 UTC
Email works just fine, when I remember to check it, hun. ^_^ You know that. If you want my number you're more than welcome to it, though. Would be a heck of a lot cheaper to skype, or Y!M video chat!

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