All Women's play party, Dec. 5th (graphic and long)
Finally getting around to writing about Saturday night. As mentioned before, My bestest friend H was in town to visit so I took her to this shindig at Servitus. She was accompanied by her lady friend, R (not sure if she's a girlfriend yet since they are long-distance) who had never been to a play party before. Personally, this was my first time going to an all women's event. Wow... It was... very different.
First major difference: LOTS OF SEX.
Being about 80% straight, my sexual experiences with girls are limited (though very fun if you've read some of my previous blog posts). When I do something with a girl, it tends to be kinky play with a sexual undertone as opposed to straight up sex. Well, there was girl-on-girl mania at Servitus this night. I saw fisting and dildo-uh...ing and squirting and all that good stuff. The room was full of delicious female moans.
One thing I wish is that they weren't so strict about the RSVP deadline (which I didn't see posted anywhere). I had a couple of hot female friends who wanted to check it out (and whom I wanted to play with). Also, I know Mistress Ellen wanted to come, but was also turned away as she RSVP'd too late. Oh well. The venue could have used a few more lovely ladies, but nonetheless it was a nice mix of very feminine, lipsticky types, butch types and lithe bois. Also, the small attendance meant the play areas opened up more often. There was one amazingly beautiful Asian woman with short hair and a corset that I was captivated by. She was playing with Blue at the time so I couldn't bother her. I lost track of her after that and got caught up playing with Blue. Unfortunately, Blue doesn't remember her name and she was gone by the time I was done sessioning. Oh well. :(
The entire night, H and her lady were making out so I was really happy to see R wasn't weirded out by all the goings-on. It also warms my heart to see H so happy. They had lots of noisy sex both nights they stayed at my house together so it is great to see such wonderful physical chemistry between them. Lesbians are awesome. Plus, it just warms my heart to see my best friend so blissful.
Okay, so about my session with Blue. The cross finally became available so I jumped on it and asked Blue to watch over it while I picked out some toys. I had played with Blue just a week or two before when Dax tied her to our living room couch/futon and gave her to me like a damned Christmas present one night after Beat and Greet. So the nice thing was I knew her and had played with her before (just clothespins) so there was a comfort zone there. However, this time around we actually got to negotiate the scene a bit beforehand. I saw her playing with a flogger earlier in the night and she told me she had never been flogged before, nor caned nor paddled. I decided it would be a night of firsts for her. >:)
I was happy to hear that she was into the D/s aspect even more than the S&M. I am the same way. This exited me, since I knew it'd be a sexier scene for the both of us if there was a bit of power play involved. OK... This is the point where I get lazy, so I am going to intermittently quote Blue's blog post about the same session and then elaborate.
...she handcuffed me to the cross after we decided which of the toys that she brought to use and put the collar on me, and went over to grab a couple more from the wall. I'd never been flogged, caned, or paddled before, so I was both nervous and excited for this scene. Mostly excited, even though I could already feel my muscles warming up to protest the harsh treatment later. 'Shut up, assholes,' I thought, as I looked and saw Miss Inara coming back over with more toys. 'This is the most exciting thing that's happened all weekend.' She dropped all the toys on her bag, and told me, "You're gonna call me Miss for this scene. You got it?" I nodded and said, "Yes, Miss." And so the scene began.
Three reasons why I really like playing with girls: 1. They are pretty to look at, 2. They make really pretty noises, and 3. They sound so frakking sexy when they say "Miss" to me in their lovely, demure voices. Mmmm. ^_^
She warmed me up first, of course; played with my hair and petted me and pressed herself up against me, and of course, my body is going to respond when there is a beautiful woman molesting me. So I was nice and turned on by the time she started to use the first flogger. As expected, it went from mild thumping/stinging to "OH MY GOD THAT STINGS". But on the whole, nothing I couldn't handle. The aftermath was rather pleasant, even. Of course, that only lasted until she used the smaller flogger, which stung and burned and *hurt*. But my Miss wanted me to take it for her, and I was a good girl, so I did. Her praise was worth it.
It turned me on to read this on Blue's LJ, to tell you the truth. It is a huge turn-on to know a sub is taking pain to please me. Once I sense this, if I wasn't in Domme space yet, that will definitely send me over the edge. That is about the time I start developing my tunnel-vision. When everything else falls away and no one else exists in the world but me and my submissive. It is a heady, lustful, boiling and sizzling sensation that I hope to attempt to describe one day in a film.
After that, she told me I was a slut and that I shouldn't try to wear long dresses to hide it, yanked my dress up, and pulled my panties down for a much-deserved spanking. I was squirming and whimpering even more about halfway through, but even though it hurt, I was so far gone into subspace by then that I didn't even think about it. My skin was burning by the time she was done with barehanded spanking, and she graciously let me have relief for a moment--but only a moment.
Mmmm. I love subs who are into humiliation. I find the "genre" very challenging because I can't tell what a person is going to enjoy and what he/she will be offended by. It is one of those kinks that involve me making myself vulnerable. I have to expose my own naughtiness, my own kinks and the workings of my inner-thoughts if I want to humiliate someone. What if I go too far? What if I reveal myself to be a sexist, or arrogant or... evil? It's part of why I like humiliation. I like kinks that involve risks for the Domme. It's why I've enjoyed all the depraved stuff I explored with Red while he was visiting (some of you have read his blog). While I sometimes explore deeper and worry I've gone too far, the rewards when I am spot-on are profound. Although failures are deeply felt as well (I helped bug learn something he did not like and I couldn't help but feel crappy about it). Like I told Blue on chat today, I think I am a bit too hard on myself. I take so much pride in my ability to have a successful session that I can't live with failure or mediocrity. I really need to work on that, because I really do have fun in all my sessions if the chemistry is right.
Okay, so about the spanking. There is a shot in Watchmen that really turned me on where the Comedian splits Silk Spectre's legs with his boot. I tried to copy this with Blue, but it took a couple of tries lol. Maybe I will learn to be smooth with that with some practice. After pulling up her skirt and pulling down her panties, I kneeled down behind spread Eagle Blue and started spanking her. Man... Blue has an amazing ass. Just the kind I like. Firm and big and round and jiggly. And very pale. A perfect canvas for the palette of pink and crimson I wanted to paint. I enjoyed singing the William Tell Overture to the beat of my ass drum. We both got a good laugh at that. I also had fun tickling her bottom once it was nice and hot and red. She really squirmed at that and giggled. So cute. I think that was one of my favorite little moments in the Scene.
Then she paddled the hell out of me, which got MORE whining and whimpering and squirming, especially as she made me thank her for the last ten strokes. But I thought the worst was over after that.
At least, until I saw her grab the cane and realized that that had been a really stupid thought.
The cane hurt worse than anything I'd ever taken before. My knees almost gave out halfway through. They probably would have, if the cuffs at the top of the cross hadn't been holding me up. However, I wasn't sticking my ass out far enough, so she gave me a couple of really hard swats with the cane, and I managed to do it for the rest of the time, as I didn't want to disappoint her again. She grabbed my hair and pulled my head back to whisper that these last ten were gonna be the worst, and that she liked it when I said "thank you, Miss", so I was going to have to do that again, too. It really was the worst part, and we had to do an extra three, because I fucked up on the count. Too busy screaming and trying not to lose my voice altogether (or cry), you see.
I remember my voice getting very low and ferocious (almost like a growl) when she wouldn't stick her ass out properly for the caning. Sometimes I scare myself a little when that animal comes out in me, but it also turns me on. It feels so good to get that aggression out and just let go. Even if for just a few moments at a time. OK. Getting turned on just writing about it so i better move on.
But afterwards, she uncuffed me and got me water and cuddled me, and I was flying so high it was ridiculous. As they were leaving, I had five or six random women come up to me and thank me for letting them watch the scene, and that it was beautiful. I was amazed. I guess it never occurred to me that people would have enjoyed watching our scene so much. But nonetheless, it was very flattering, and I went home deliriously happy. Playing with Miss Inara is always amazing.
What a compliment. Especially since we have only played twice. I am so glad Blue had a good time because I did. The more I get to know her, the more she really impresses me. I swear to you, not only is she the most well-adjusted kinky teenager I have ever met, she just has a good head on her shoulders, period. I envy her her youth because it took me years to be as ok with my kinks and my poly heart as she is at her age. Good for her. I like to play with people I respect, and all in all I just had a lot of fun in general. One woman came up to me after the scene and thanked me for letting everyone watch and share in our session. I was a bit taken aback because I usually forget anyone else exists when I have a good session. I have been thanked for Scenes before, but I think it was an extra compliment coming at a party where I walked in a bit out of my element.
To hear that more people came up to Blue afterward was really flattering to hear too. How cool! :) Personally, I really liked watching a fisting scene and a dildo/clothespin-on-the-labia scene that night. The vibe from a women-only party is pretty cool. I've learned to really appreciate women-only events in general, which is why I have started a very small tea party every month or two for just ladies. It is amazing how different the atmosphere is when there are no men around. No offense guys.
Well H and R had a good time making out and watching us play and I was pretty sated and just sort of stewing in Domme Space. So we went home. Unfortunately, I had no private space in the house (what with all the guests) to have some girl-on-vibrator time so I didn't get to expend any sexual energy that night, but I think I fell asleep soon after getting home anyway.
These past two weeks have been great. I think I have managed to learn a few really important things about myself. Or perhaps more accurately, I have learned to be OK with a few things about myself. Namely, the way I am poly (being OK with the fact that I fall in love easily and I love several people in very different and special ways) and also learning to be cool with some of my weirder fetishes because I am exploring them with people I love and trust.
Life is pretty awesome right now. Damn it is LATE... Scripps, I'm a naughty girl and haven't gone to bed yet. I swear I will be all bouncy and energetic for our lesson tonight. Even if it takes a few coffees. If I'm not you can spank me. Or at least you can try, hehe. ;)
*Smooches just for Scripps*
P.S. - I love you all (well, my friends anyway) and owe you lots of hugs.
P.P.S. - No, I am not on drugs... Hey that rhymes.
P.P.P.S. - Methinks it is time for bed.
First major difference: LOTS OF SEX.
Being about 80% straight, my sexual experiences with girls are limited (though very fun if you've read some of my previous blog posts). When I do something with a girl, it tends to be kinky play with a sexual undertone as opposed to straight up sex. Well, there was girl-on-girl mania at Servitus this night. I saw fisting and dildo-uh...ing and squirting and all that good stuff. The room was full of delicious female moans.
One thing I wish is that they weren't so strict about the RSVP deadline (which I didn't see posted anywhere). I had a couple of hot female friends who wanted to check it out (and whom I wanted to play with). Also, I know Mistress Ellen wanted to come, but was also turned away as she RSVP'd too late. Oh well. The venue could have used a few more lovely ladies, but nonetheless it was a nice mix of very feminine, lipsticky types, butch types and lithe bois. Also, the small attendance meant the play areas opened up more often. There was one amazingly beautiful Asian woman with short hair and a corset that I was captivated by. She was playing with Blue at the time so I couldn't bother her. I lost track of her after that and got caught up playing with Blue. Unfortunately, Blue doesn't remember her name and she was gone by the time I was done sessioning. Oh well. :(
The entire night, H and her lady were making out so I was really happy to see R wasn't weirded out by all the goings-on. It also warms my heart to see H so happy. They had lots of noisy sex both nights they stayed at my house together so it is great to see such wonderful physical chemistry between them. Lesbians are awesome. Plus, it just warms my heart to see my best friend so blissful.
Okay, so about my session with Blue. The cross finally became available so I jumped on it and asked Blue to watch over it while I picked out some toys. I had played with Blue just a week or two before when Dax tied her to our living room couch/futon and gave her to me like a damned Christmas present one night after Beat and Greet. So the nice thing was I knew her and had played with her before (just clothespins) so there was a comfort zone there. However, this time around we actually got to negotiate the scene a bit beforehand. I saw her playing with a flogger earlier in the night and she told me she had never been flogged before, nor caned nor paddled. I decided it would be a night of firsts for her. >:)
I was happy to hear that she was into the D/s aspect even more than the S&M. I am the same way. This exited me, since I knew it'd be a sexier scene for the both of us if there was a bit of power play involved. OK... This is the point where I get lazy, so I am going to intermittently quote Blue's blog post about the same session and then elaborate.
...she handcuffed me to the cross after we decided which of the toys that she brought to use and put the collar on me, and went over to grab a couple more from the wall. I'd never been flogged, caned, or paddled before, so I was both nervous and excited for this scene. Mostly excited, even though I could already feel my muscles warming up to protest the harsh treatment later. 'Shut up, assholes,' I thought, as I looked and saw Miss Inara coming back over with more toys. 'This is the most exciting thing that's happened all weekend.' She dropped all the toys on her bag, and told me, "You're gonna call me Miss for this scene. You got it?" I nodded and said, "Yes, Miss." And so the scene began.
Three reasons why I really like playing with girls: 1. They are pretty to look at, 2. They make really pretty noises, and 3. They sound so frakking sexy when they say "Miss" to me in their lovely, demure voices. Mmmm. ^_^
She warmed me up first, of course; played with my hair and petted me and pressed herself up against me, and of course, my body is going to respond when there is a beautiful woman molesting me. So I was nice and turned on by the time she started to use the first flogger. As expected, it went from mild thumping/stinging to "OH MY GOD THAT STINGS". But on the whole, nothing I couldn't handle. The aftermath was rather pleasant, even. Of course, that only lasted until she used the smaller flogger, which stung and burned and *hurt*. But my Miss wanted me to take it for her, and I was a good girl, so I did. Her praise was worth it.
It turned me on to read this on Blue's LJ, to tell you the truth. It is a huge turn-on to know a sub is taking pain to please me. Once I sense this, if I wasn't in Domme space yet, that will definitely send me over the edge. That is about the time I start developing my tunnel-vision. When everything else falls away and no one else exists in the world but me and my submissive. It is a heady, lustful, boiling and sizzling sensation that I hope to attempt to describe one day in a film.
After that, she told me I was a slut and that I shouldn't try to wear long dresses to hide it, yanked my dress up, and pulled my panties down for a much-deserved spanking. I was squirming and whimpering even more about halfway through, but even though it hurt, I was so far gone into subspace by then that I didn't even think about it. My skin was burning by the time she was done with barehanded spanking, and she graciously let me have relief for a moment--but only a moment.
Mmmm. I love subs who are into humiliation. I find the "genre" very challenging because I can't tell what a person is going to enjoy and what he/she will be offended by. It is one of those kinks that involve me making myself vulnerable. I have to expose my own naughtiness, my own kinks and the workings of my inner-thoughts if I want to humiliate someone. What if I go too far? What if I reveal myself to be a sexist, or arrogant or... evil? It's part of why I like humiliation. I like kinks that involve risks for the Domme. It's why I've enjoyed all the depraved stuff I explored with Red while he was visiting (some of you have read his blog). While I sometimes explore deeper and worry I've gone too far, the rewards when I am spot-on are profound. Although failures are deeply felt as well (I helped bug learn something he did not like and I couldn't help but feel crappy about it). Like I told Blue on chat today, I think I am a bit too hard on myself. I take so much pride in my ability to have a successful session that I can't live with failure or mediocrity. I really need to work on that, because I really do have fun in all my sessions if the chemistry is right.
Okay, so about the spanking. There is a shot in Watchmen that really turned me on where the Comedian splits Silk Spectre's legs with his boot. I tried to copy this with Blue, but it took a couple of tries lol. Maybe I will learn to be smooth with that with some practice. After pulling up her skirt and pulling down her panties, I kneeled down behind spread Eagle Blue and started spanking her. Man... Blue has an amazing ass. Just the kind I like. Firm and big and round and jiggly. And very pale. A perfect canvas for the palette of pink and crimson I wanted to paint. I enjoyed singing the William Tell Overture to the beat of my ass drum. We both got a good laugh at that. I also had fun tickling her bottom once it was nice and hot and red. She really squirmed at that and giggled. So cute. I think that was one of my favorite little moments in the Scene.
Then she paddled the hell out of me, which got MORE whining and whimpering and squirming, especially as she made me thank her for the last ten strokes. But I thought the worst was over after that.
At least, until I saw her grab the cane and realized that that had been a really stupid thought.
The cane hurt worse than anything I'd ever taken before. My knees almost gave out halfway through. They probably would have, if the cuffs at the top of the cross hadn't been holding me up. However, I wasn't sticking my ass out far enough, so she gave me a couple of really hard swats with the cane, and I managed to do it for the rest of the time, as I didn't want to disappoint her again. She grabbed my hair and pulled my head back to whisper that these last ten were gonna be the worst, and that she liked it when I said "thank you, Miss", so I was going to have to do that again, too. It really was the worst part, and we had to do an extra three, because I fucked up on the count. Too busy screaming and trying not to lose my voice altogether (or cry), you see.
I remember my voice getting very low and ferocious (almost like a growl) when she wouldn't stick her ass out properly for the caning. Sometimes I scare myself a little when that animal comes out in me, but it also turns me on. It feels so good to get that aggression out and just let go. Even if for just a few moments at a time. OK. Getting turned on just writing about it so i better move on.
But afterwards, she uncuffed me and got me water and cuddled me, and I was flying so high it was ridiculous. As they were leaving, I had five or six random women come up to me and thank me for letting them watch the scene, and that it was beautiful. I was amazed. I guess it never occurred to me that people would have enjoyed watching our scene so much. But nonetheless, it was very flattering, and I went home deliriously happy. Playing with Miss Inara is always amazing.
What a compliment. Especially since we have only played twice. I am so glad Blue had a good time because I did. The more I get to know her, the more she really impresses me. I swear to you, not only is she the most well-adjusted kinky teenager I have ever met, she just has a good head on her shoulders, period. I envy her her youth because it took me years to be as ok with my kinks and my poly heart as she is at her age. Good for her. I like to play with people I respect, and all in all I just had a lot of fun in general. One woman came up to me after the scene and thanked me for letting everyone watch and share in our session. I was a bit taken aback because I usually forget anyone else exists when I have a good session. I have been thanked for Scenes before, but I think it was an extra compliment coming at a party where I walked in a bit out of my element.
To hear that more people came up to Blue afterward was really flattering to hear too. How cool! :) Personally, I really liked watching a fisting scene and a dildo/clothespin-on-the-labia scene that night. The vibe from a women-only party is pretty cool. I've learned to really appreciate women-only events in general, which is why I have started a very small tea party every month or two for just ladies. It is amazing how different the atmosphere is when there are no men around. No offense guys.
Well H and R had a good time making out and watching us play and I was pretty sated and just sort of stewing in Domme Space. So we went home. Unfortunately, I had no private space in the house (what with all the guests) to have some girl-on-vibrator time so I didn't get to expend any sexual energy that night, but I think I fell asleep soon after getting home anyway.
These past two weeks have been great. I think I have managed to learn a few really important things about myself. Or perhaps more accurately, I have learned to be OK with a few things about myself. Namely, the way I am poly (being OK with the fact that I fall in love easily and I love several people in very different and special ways) and also learning to be cool with some of my weirder fetishes because I am exploring them with people I love and trust.
Life is pretty awesome right now. Damn it is LATE... Scripps, I'm a naughty girl and haven't gone to bed yet. I swear I will be all bouncy and energetic for our lesson tonight. Even if it takes a few coffees. If I'm not you can spank me. Or at least you can try, hehe. ;)
*Smooches just for Scripps*
P.S. - I love you all (well, my friends anyway) and owe you lots of hugs.
P.P.S. - No, I am not on drugs... Hey that rhymes.
P.P.P.S. - Methinks it is time for bed.